would you believe someone who lies all the time?
February 9, 2007 8:45pm CST
if you don't feel like reading this i won't care but would you believe someone who lies to you all the time? even if they were a family member? ok, here is the sisutation, i have a 15 year old sister. she goes out all the time! if she saids she gonna go out till 10, she won't come home till 3 in the morning! she saids that she doesn't do drugs, but i heard about her doing drugs at parties all the time! she drinks at parties,and she thinks it cool...which is NOT considering her age! she smokes and tells me she stopped, but i've found cigaretts in her purses! she takes pictures of herself that should only belong in mens' magazine and postes it up on the internet! and may i remind you again she is only 15 YEARS OLD! guys call our our house all the time! because of her, i DON'T even answer the phone anymore, and when my friends call, i won't know it's them because i won't answer the phone. plus 9 out of 10 calls are for her!!...did i mention she steals! probably not a VIRGIN anymore too! she skips school so many times! i lost count and she got caught! i mean, who gets caught skipping school?!? she tell my parents that she doesn't do any of this but she does! I even told them about this, but they didn't believe me until she got caugh drunk 3 times, got caught for stealing and i finally showed them the cigatetts! they now believe what i have to say about her but i still haven't told them the WHOLE TRUTH about her! she just went out and said that she'll be home by 10:30...she BEGGED my dad to go to the party! she asked for 20 min. straight! and finally, he gave in and let ONLY because her friends were here! if she ever told you something, would you believe her from what i know about her and i'm her sister, because i don't know if i'm going stand by her anymore and i'm not going to believe one word that comes out of her mouth! would you forgive her? do you think i should forgive? But do you think i should believe her if she told me something?
• United States
10 Feb 07
One day your sister will realize what she is doing and I hope it's not too late for her. What she is doing is very dangerous. Especially for a child her age. No, as it stands I would not believe anything she told me. She has destroyed the trust and until she could prove herself trust worthy again, nothing she said would be believable. I'm sorry you have to deal with this, but your parents really need to get strict with her and lay down some laws. Good luck! BTW, about the photos on the web, you should really let your parents know about that. That is very dangerous!
10 Feb 07
If i were you, I would forgive her if she forgives herself for doing such damage on her life. If you don't forgive her then you will have a hard time thinking about her, imagine the stress that it would give. Don't shout at her or nag about what she does just tell her that you are extremely concerned and you are very much affected. If something happen to her really bad, you can't forgive yourself for letting her ruin her life. Dude, I'm impressed by your concern. hope she'll come around and change
• United States
10 Feb 07
to be honest, she does NOT care about the family. but i don't think i can trust her anymore.i don't shout or nag about what she does, cause it's her life, if she messes it up, it's her fault(i even told her that)! i do forgive her though, i am VERY concerned about her but she still doesn't care. but i don't think she knows what shes really doing with her life right now until she gets farther and farther down the road until even i can't save. i'm the closes to her in the family and if i can't save her, her friends can't save her either, cause they started it! i don't think she'll ever change, hope she proves me wrong!