love with co-employee, what do you think about it

@gharinder (2044)
India
February 16, 2007 7:09am CST
it is very natural that a male and female co-employee working in the same office fell in love with each other, do you think it will increase their proficiency at work or they are a trouble for the office management.
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6 responses
• United States
16 Feb 07
You are headed for nothing but trouble!! There is no more a true saying than Dont sh@t where you eat. Take from personal experiance, nothing but trouble. As soon as there is a fight, people that dont need to be involved will be and it will really affect prodution in a bad way.
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• India
16 Feb 07
Welcome Chris, I appreciate your first response.
@gharinder (2044)
• India
17 Feb 07
yeah chris, welcome to my lot and thanks for your reply
@shilpaum (1753)
• India
17 Feb 07
As per me, its natural, co-employee may fall in love. They share some affection, u agree or not, it happens many times but nobody accepts it. Its just because they understand each others problems well, as a good friend. They don't take each other for granted, & expect nothing much in return. It will certainly increase their proficiency, & with no trouble for the office management.
@shilpaum (1753)
• India
17 Feb 07
I read other responces u've got, but I can't think about love in that way...it may create problems,if all r saying.But for me no problem if both know their work responsibility.
@gharinder (2044)
• India
17 Feb 07
yes but love makes one crazy and one will be trying to spend more time with the person whom they love, it will increase their proficiency only if they give more priority to work rather than love, but in most of the cases , love will be given more priority.
@shilpaum (1753)
• India
17 Feb 07
U r right...! I will not argue more..
@cher913 (25865)
• Canada
16 Feb 07
No, run the other way and fast! Think about these things: -you will be under much more scrutiny as the bosses will think you are spending time with each other rather than the job -what will you do if you break up? you will still have to work with each other Personally, i think you are just asking for trouble if you start dating a co-worker!
@gharinder (2044)
• India
17 Feb 07
yeah these problems are quite common, u will definitely be watched and worse still be if you break up
@cher913 (25865)
• Canada
7 Mar 07
thanx for the best response nod :-)
• United States
7 Mar 07
I think that is natural to fall in love with somebody that you are around day in and day out. Especially when they work together, because they are so close. It could cause problem at work, but only if they allow it to. If they keep there personally feeling aside till the working day is over, everything should work out great.
@gharinder (2044)
• India
8 Mar 07
yes i do agree with you, thanks
@Starline (681)
• United States
16 Feb 07
If I would start feeling something for a co-worker I would quit, I wouldn't want to risk my great marriage.
@gharinder (2044)
• India
17 Feb 07
i appreciate your love for your hubby, that would be the right choice
@samson1967 (7422)
• India
16 Feb 07
It will decrease the work efficiency, causing loss to the company. Good Companies will not employ couples.
@gharinder (2044)
• India
17 Feb 07
yeah , thanks for the reply