can you take Destructive Critism?

hey guess wt??..i once made a post abt contructive criticism!!..and am not sure if u replied to dat..but anyway..y would anyone wanna take destructive criticism??..i dont think anyone should encourage destructive critics..they've no business in da society!!..perhaps they're jobless.dats da only reason 4 wt they're doin..or mayb they r jealous!!...

Hmm..destructive criticism. I don't think anyone can take that. I can take criticisms to an extent..but here's the problem with me, if I think I'm right, no matter what other people tell me, my mind will justify it all for me. I'm stubborn like that. No, I really can't take destructive criticism. Anyone who wants to be destructive while criticizing me will probably get his/her jaws bashed back into place by yours truly.

I am critical about critiques but destructive is not criticism but hurtful and will not fix anything.

Hi!(",) It hurts to receive a destructive critism. Most of the time I don't mind it at all when I know that its not true but, when I realized that it can be a big stepping stone for me, I'll change for the better. I don't think its necessary to give destructive critism when there is always a nice way to say it as not to hurt other people's feelings. Let's just not mind those people that try to destroy us. We should focus on the nice things that other people say about you because often they are true.(",)

I am 46 years old and in my 46 years this is what I have learned...... Destructive critisism comes from childish people. They are either young and still learning discussion etiquette or... they are old and mean and cranky and life was not good to them so they've given up and want everyone else to feel the way they do, self destructive. Ok these are just my observations and I could be wrong. If your gut hurts when you read a critisism it is probably a destructive comment, let it go. If your mind says hmmmm! to a critisism it is probably a quality response and you should ponder it and decide for yourself about you and the other person and how you feel about what was said. Sometimes critisism can be a learning tool. HAVE a HAPPY, HAPPY DAY HON!