introducing him to the parents.

Philippines
March 6, 2007 10:21pm CST
though my parents are abroad but my partner and i have been steady for 8months now. my mom will be home this christmas. do you think it's time for me to introduce him to my mom and the rest of the clan? we talked about it and he's kind of scared but i think we're ready to face the next step. is this the right time? help? LOL
3 responses
• India
7 Mar 07
Yes what are you waiting for?If you have enquired and have a good trust in your partner.Its the Christmas time best for doing so.And I dont know how much friendly you are to your mom ,But no mom can distrust you if you have the right attitude in selecting your partner.njoy your Christmas.
• Philippines
7 Mar 07
yeah. thanks hothash. i hope, i hope, i hope. i'm crossing my fingers on it. thanks for sharing! =)
@rsa101 (23704)
• Philippines
7 Mar 07
Well if you too are serious with your relationship wy not? I guess that is also a measure of how committed the guy is to you. If he's ready to face your family and he's ready to be accepted/rejected by your family. So if that happens go and introduced him to the clan and we'll see how it goes then. Goodluck!
• Philippines
7 Mar 07
yeah, thanks a lot RSA. i hope ours will not be the next sequel of meet the parets/fockers. good luck to you too
• Philippines
7 Mar 07
Yes, i think it's time. For me, as a mom, I want my children someday to introduce to me all his friends and girlfriend. I would even liked it for them to tell me first aboout a girl before entering into a relationship. Not really to dictate him who to choose but to at least give him support or any comments. Go ahead and tell all the clan. You must be proud of it. But of course, consider your boyfriend's idea. If he doesnt like it, ask why. If the reason is not valid, you might have to think twice if he is serious about you.
• Philippines
7 Mar 07
thanks miss lissie. well, he's anxious and scared about it. though he knows i am from a broken family but still he's scared to meet my mom. but i guess that's where i'll measure on how "courageous" and "brave" he is to meet my mommy tiger. ahahahaha! my dad knows about him and all he could say is that "whoever you love, i love" LOL. but thanks again miss lissie. it helps a lot in calming me though christmas is far away but you know how time flies. god bless to you and to your family