go after him to the uk or not.?

@metallo (265)
March 12, 2007 8:34am CST
ok me and this dude stayed together for bout 2 months we dated for 9. he told me he was going to the uk and thats what he wants. i love him so much. he stayes with 3 other girls ther but he says they just friends. he phones once a month. tells me he misses me. should i go to the uk?? i have family there so i wont be alone. if i could just see him once more, maybe then i could get peace.in my heart i know he is my soulmate. its been 3 months, should i go there or just let fate happen.
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• Singapore
12 Mar 07
Ask him if he would like to see you again. I think that should give you a clue as to whether he likes you. Ask him if he already has a gf. If he says yes to the first question and no to the second, then I say just follow your heart! Book a flight to UK now! In any case, if things don't really work out, you can always enjoy your holiday there, visiting your family. At least you know that you have tried but it didn't work out. Otherwise, you'd always be haunted by "what ifs".