The nice guy!
By justpjteb
@justpjteb (183)
United States
March 18, 2007 11:32pm CST
So hear goes about "Why the nice guy loses out or as some people like to say "FINISHES LAST"! The nice guy is always there for you when your down, brings you soup when your sick, or sends you flowers to just to make you smile. Not sure what the bad part about that is but girls just dont want them in there life! If they do its just because there only good enough to be there friend. The nice guy always puts himself out of the way to make the girl happy which she likes but the nice guy isnt the person she likes to take around her friend. Hes either not hot enough, or doesnt look good enough to impress her friends. Which to me who cares as long as you are happy right? The nice guy is there for you when shes sick or whens shes upset because her "JERK BF" is out with his friends or just made her upset. The nice guy is just to nice she says... "AWWW your such a sweetheart but your just to nice for me". Question... "How can someone be to nice or to much of a sweetheart and the girl not want to be with them? In my eyes wouldnt you want to have someone there for you when you wake up sick or when you are having a bad day to make it all better? Thats right thats why the nice guy finishes last. The nice guy wants to take you around his friends and family and show them what a great person they have. While the other guy just wants to keep your to yourself or just use you for something. The nice guy allows you to hang out with your friends but apparently thats not what she wants anymore. Funny thing about this is the most girls say "I want a nice guy" but seems like nice guys are mostly single. The thing about nice guys now are that girls are making them become jerks because guys are trying to impress the girl and get them.Nice guys just cant do anything right! Thats why "NICE GUYS FINISH LAST"
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@justpjteb (183)
• United States
19 Mar 07
congrats to you on having a nice guy and congrats to him for having a beautiful girl!
@justpjteb (183)
• United States
19 Mar 07
congrats to you and congrats to him finding a beautiful girl
@merlblue (275)
• United Arab Emirates
19 Mar 07
i agree with you. most of the girls go for the guys who are NOT NICE enough for them., i have a friend who is so nice and seems always taken for granted by the girls he is interested with.
id prefer to go for the nice guy who will make me true happy, rather than Jerk guy who will just let me cry..
@justpjteb (183)
• United States
20 Mar 07
i would totally agree with that. I know i try my hardest to make the girl I am with happy and still get trashed for it. I either get cheated on or used. Just dont understand society anymore..
@rsilva708 (172)
• United States
19 Mar 07
I agree the nice guy does finish last. Am am one of the "Nice Guys". And I nver seem to get anywhere. I had my girl, and was still the nice guy with her, and she ended up cheating on me. I couldn't have done more for her and it still wasn't good enough. It seems like even though they say they want someone to treat the well, they only go for the "bad Boys". Most of my friends are girls, and time and time again I see them going out with guys who treat them bad, and don't show any concern for them. Yet they go back for the same type of person over and over again.
@justpjteb (183)
• United States
19 Mar 07
I agree with you man.. I hear ya on the cheating part happend to me with my ex. I have alot of girls that are my really good friends and they get hurt time in and time out and I am always there to catch them and there like your such a sweetheart and thanks for being there but seems like they never go for that nice guy.. Just dont understand it really!!
