criticism?

criticism - why do you think i usually depend on it?
@jencai (3412)
Philippines
March 19, 2007 2:19am CST
why do i feel afraid for other people's criticism? i always feel this. sometimes i cannot decide because i always depend on what would people think of me. do you know why? and how will i overcome it?
2 responses
• Philippines
19 Mar 07
It is normal for an individual to feel fear of what other people think about them or how others perceive them....it is part of humanity...to seek for the approval of others. Everyone goes through it in some way or another....different people have different degrees of such feelings. The only thing that will make it pathological is if it causes a problem or disrupts your normal day to day activities. Then you should seek help from a professional. As what have been mentioned.....you should try to be a little more secure and confident about yourself. Believe in what you can do and what you can offer to other people. If you don't start believing in yourself...noone will. Try not to focus on what others think....but concentrate on what you feel is right. Listen to your inner voice...your conscience.
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@jencai (3412)
• Philippines
19 Mar 07
right.. i will try to focus on my self so i can do a little more better. thank you for your comment.
@jencai (3412)
• Philippines
20 Mar 07
yeah, i knew it. all of you helped me alot. thank you for that
• China
20 Mar 07
snuglesteen, you analyse this problem very well. Right. We should not focus much attention on others' opinions. Just be ourselves. Do things in the way that we feel it's right. Everyone is different.
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• Singapore
19 Mar 07
I think what you are lacking is self-confidence. You need to find faith and be sure of yourself. Stand tall and proud. There is no need to be afraid of criticism. In fact, constructive criticism can help you improve. ;-)
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@jencai (3412)
• Philippines
19 Mar 07
yes. i do feel that i have a low self confidence, don't know why? i'm trying to improve my self but it's really hard to do so. i will try my best to have little by little confidence. thank you lordwarizard, you really had so much wisdom.
• Singapore
10 Apr 07
Keep trying. :P
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@jencai (3412)
• Philippines
11 Apr 07
Thank you so much for the support!