Cause of concern
By mansha
@mansha (6298)
India
April 3, 2007 7:45am CST
"Mei-ming has lain this way for 10 days now: tied up in urine-soaked blankets, scabs of dried mucus growing across her eyes, her face shrinking to a skull, malnutrition slowly shrivelling her two-year old body. The orphanage staff call her room the "dying room", and they have abandoned here for the very same reasons her parents abandoned her shortly after she was born. She is a girl.
When Mei-ming dies four days later, it will be of sheer neglect. Afterward, the orphanage will deny she ever existed. She will be just another invisible victim of the collision between China's one-child policy and its traditional preference for male heirs. She is one of perhaps 15 million female babies who have disappeared from China's demographics since the one-child-per-family policy was introduced in 1979.
Yet Mei-ming's brief and miserable life may not have been in vain. Before she died, she was discovered by a British documentary team that entered her orphanage posing as American charity fund-raisers. The footage the team shot, through a concealed camera, would provide the first video evidence of the existence of dying rooms. "
Source:http://acc6.its.brooklyn.cuny.edu/~phalsall/texts/c-wnhol.html
Lakshmi already had one daughter, so when she gave birth to a second girl, she killed her. For the three days of her second child's short life, Lakshmi admits, she refused to nurse her. To silence the infant's famished cries, the impoverished village woman squeezed the milky sap from an oleander shrub, mixed it with castor oil, and forced the poisonous potion down the newborn's throat. The baby bled from the nose, then died soon afterward. Female neighbors buried her in a small hole near Lakshmi's square thatched hut of sunbaked mud. They sympathized with Lakshmi, and in the same circumstances, some would probably have done what she did. For despite the risk of execution by hanging and about 16 months of a much-ballyhooed government scheme to assist families with daughters, in some hamlets of ... Tamil Nadu, murdering girls is still sometimes believed to be a wiser course than raising them. "A daughter is always liabilities. How can I bring up a second?" Lakshmi, 28, answered firmly when asked by a visitor how she could have taken her own child's life eight years ago. "Instead of her suffering the way I do, I thought it was better to get rid of her." (All quotes from Dahlburg, "Where killing baby girls 'is no big sin'.")
source:http://www.gendercide.org/case_infanticide.html
I am as shocked to read this as you are. Infact, I am crying thinking of these little girls. I have a daughter and I am so proud of her. How can we as humans practice this and let this happen?
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@shogunly (1397)
• Libya
3 Apr 07
What is happening in China is an example of how morals change when resources are no longer enough for everyone . When it comes to survival , the already alive take precedence over developing life . I think this might ultimately be seen all over the world as populations continue to grow .
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@samrat16 (2442)
• India
3 Apr 07
As a human being I fail to understand how can someone even think of killing their very own little bundle of life and then carry on with their life.
However, the practice of killing young girls has long been recognised as a problem in India and China - both strongly patriarchal societies. Statistics are there in plenty: the British Journal Lancet estimated that over 10 million girl babies were lost in India over the last 20 years; the national average female ratio (girls to boys ration)has gone down from 972 in 1901 to just 933 in 2001 .
In both places boys are valued more than girls and because of the cost of having a child and because you are by law only allowed one child in china people kill their daughters so that they can rather have a son. Its all part of the long standing gender discrimmination that continues in so many countries. If you go to orphanages in chinma you will see that most of the abandones children are also female.
In the indian culture boys are the providers and the head of the house kind of thing and a women is only good for house work. she cant carry the family name and she cant earn anything or bring pride to the family. Not all indians still think like this of course but many do. Because women are thought of like this many indian parents will give their daughters away at a very young age to be married so they can at least receive a dowry for her. As your as 5 or six lots of the time.
People who kill their daughters are not human being they are devils born as humans.
@mansha (6298)
• India
4 Apr 07
Yes , I wan teveryne to npw atleast start doing somethin gto stop it. we have so many demonstrations against free this land and stop war and everything we should now start recognising how barbaric we are actually. We must stop them from doing this. God if anyone doesn't want their kid please give them to me. I will take care of her plerase do not kill them like this.



