Rude Questions
By cher913
@cher913 (25781)
Canada
April 3, 2007 6:14pm CST
Do you notice that many people do not have um tact when they ask questions? I was in a chat room lately (a religious one) and one guy was talking to a lady...she mentioned that she was a widow, her husband died of lung cancer...this guy had no tact and just came out and asked if he smoked...i mean really, there are a lot of people that die of lung cancer who have not smoked a day in their lives...its called 'second hand smoke'...come on, be sensitive...and THINK before ya speak (or write!)
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4 responses
@raydene (9871)
• United States
5 Apr 07
I'm taking sides but he may be a smoker looking for a reason to quit ...We don't know why people come out with things that way they do .I have many times said something that after walking away I realized it might have come out wrong and maybe someone would take offence but I would never hurt anyone on purpose...He shouldn't have said it but lots of people are insensitive without meaning to be...
Cher it seems to have hit a nerve with you..Is there something more about it that bothers you?Hugs Sweetie.
@SpitFire179 (2536)
• Canada
4 Apr 07
well your right, many people don't think before they speak, and i think a lot of it comes from their parents not raising them to know what's right and what's wrong... It's that simple... And i mean yes there's other reasons for this,but as far as i'm concerned, parenting is the first reason for this.
@healer (1779)
• India
4 Apr 07
Many people without giving a second thought gave us rude replies and even we does the same at times. Everybody makes mistakes, but i don't like chat rooms all the people there are frustrated people i guess and they speak bullshit most of the times. They think that everybody hates them and never takes anything in a positive way. Before i use to chat a lot but those experiences are really annoying so i don't do these days.
