Self Mutilation

United States
April 4, 2007 2:47am CST
Have you ever known a person who intentionally harms themself in order to get attention? I, personally, have never known of anyone who does this but I have heard from friends and relatives that they know people who do. I wonder what is the driving force behind this behavior?
6 responses
@repzkoopz (1895)
• Philippines
4 Apr 07
i don't know about others, but i've heard some beggars here do that. it is to simply catch the attention, and most probably, get some alms from passers by who'd be pitiful enough. what they do is mutilate, usually their skin from their hips, then show it off to passers by.
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• United States
4 Apr 07
That sounds more like manipulation than anything else.
• United States
5 Apr 07
I think that losing hope is the most horrible thing that can happen to a person.
@repzkoopz (1895)
• Philippines
5 Apr 07
pretty much, yeah. probably an effect of poverty and the loss of hope of getting better.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
5 Apr 07
I believe it's about "relief" and "coping". Look here: http://www.palace.net/~llama/psych/injury.html
• United States
5 Apr 07
Thank you for the link. I now understand it a bit better. I still think it's a terribly sad thing though. It's one of those things where you want to offer help but don't know what to do. I'll pray. That's the best thing I can do.
• Philippines
4 Apr 07
People do not only inflict pain on themselves to get attention. Most of these people cannot handle their emotions the way others do. Self-mutilation is just one of the coping methods used by those who experience overwhelming feelings such as depression, sadness, guilt and pain but it's destructive one. They intend to externalize emotional pain into physical pain, something which they deem to be more manageable.
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• United States
4 Apr 07
I just don't know what to say! How do you help someone with that sort of problem?
@twoey68 (13627)
• United States
27 Oct 07
I went through a period when I was a teenager when I did some pretty dumb stuff. At one point I carved my initals into my arm with a rusty railroad spike I found. Don't ask me why. You can still faintly see them. !!HAPPY HALLOWEEN!! **AT PEACE WITHIN** ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~
@sweetsue (758)
• Philippines
4 Apr 07
Yeah, I knew one. We were friends/classmate from college then and he tried to pursue me. He got really disappointed when I declined him. He showed up in one our classes one time having this scars in his palm. I've learned from our friends that he got his palm slahed with blade. That was indeed pretty annoying.That ends up our friendship. I've heard stories like this aside from that friend-suitor of mine. I know there are factors that contribute this kind of behavior. And I believe one of this factor that drives a human mind to do such act is disappointment or frustration in life.
• United States
4 Apr 07
I still have to wonder why anyone would hurt themself to deal with disappointment and frustration. There are so many other ways to deal with it that do not include harming ones self.
• United States
18 Oct 07
No. Most people who cut themselves does it as a coping skill. There is only a small amount of people who harm themselves for attention.