How Do You Hadle Things....

I would wait for them to come to me I would not pressure, I would ask once and if they do not want to talk I would leave the Person space Only 2 things can happen they come to their senses and come back or they don't come back so then I will put behind me and get on When you usually leave them the Space they will think but if you keep trying to get to them and ask they get fed up and angry.

I will not give up if I cherish the relationship. When they are angry and refused to talk further, there is no point pushing on. It will only backfire. In such cases, I will just give them some time, a period of time to cool down. During this period, I will still keep in touch by justing sending short messages or emails. I believe it is sincerity that touches, and it never fails so far. After the "ordeal", our friendship actually progress further, and we get closer. I would not leave my friends alone unless there is really no chance of getting together again. Then I will just have to respect their wish and cherish the memories behind.

It would depend on the type of relationship. If this is a long-standing friendship, it should be possible to sit down and quietly and respectfully "air" the problem, especially if it is one that has been repeated often. I worked very closely with someone for sixteen years. While we had differences, we also had enormous mutual respect and we were always able to work harmoniously. A whole set of circumstances happened one on top of the other, and suddenly through numerous misunderstandings on both sides, things rapidly deteriorated. I walked out. I still believe it was the only thing to do. We didn't see each other for years, but now cross paths occasionally. We are friendly, but could never return to the friendship we had for those sixteen years. As I said, it all depends on the type of relationship and how important it is to the people concerned. If it is important enough, a heart-to-heart should sort out the problems. If not, it is probably better to forget it, rather than to repeat the same thing over and over.

Our thoughts and memories are always with us. There are good times and bad times throughout our lives but our life is better with the giving of good thoughts to ourselves and if anyone wants to share in those good thought then all the better. But bad thoughts in our lives have no place in our minds and they should be avoided and not added to because our life is too short and precious whilst we are here on this earth of ours.

that's a sad scenario. i think i would listen first. if they don't want to talk, give them enough time and space until they are ready to speak and open up. if they're not welcoming that approach, probably ask why - if no answer, just let them know once in a while that they still have a friend in you. if no reaction then probably they don't want you in their lives - just give them the space that they need...but most importantly - pray!