Missing someone

Italy
April 14, 2007 5:22am CST
Suppose that your best friend/husband/wife/son goes in a vacation for a little time...2 weeks or something like that...and you miss him/her a lot...Do you do something to not think them, like....dunno, meet other people, walking on the sea...watching tv...?
6 responses
@aliasad (1567)
• Pakistan
14 Apr 07
Oh my goodness! The people alive could be met but what if we remember those who has passed away! Very painful thing and nothing can divert your attention if you fall in that sort of recollections. I love my mother who passed away last year. She will never come back... Well, I love my baby and he is not with me at the moment and I miss him alot. I don't want to forget him because I love him.
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• Italy
14 Apr 07
Yeah, I know that we miss people passed away more that ones still alive, but I think it's a bit different..x_x
• Italy
14 Apr 07
Sorry for double post. Xx It's obvious that you suffer more for a person who passed away, I've never tried it yet, and I think I'm lucky...I know that it will happen soon or late, and ok...Sorry for your mom.é.è
@Sir_bobby88 (8242)
• Singapore
9 Jun 07
I think that if i am missing someone i will keep myself really busy so that i won't be thinking of that person yea ... and i do think that is the best remedy yea
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• Italy
23 Jun 07
yay, I think you're right...keepeng mind busy is the best way to not think of anytihng :D
@Augustta (1860)
• Poland
15 Apr 07
First of all your avatar is soooo nice and sweet!! Second if you miss someone dear,you can't remove in your heart the missing with another people.All i can suggest to you is to keep in touch at phone and internet(is more easy those days)and to go at his/her family to be near his/her place...all i know to me this work very well... augusta
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• Italy
15 Apr 07
Gwa, thanks //
• Philippines
14 Apr 07
When i miss my boyfriend, i do keep myself busy.I would think that this is my chance to pamper myself and be myself. Then sadness will be taken away gradually. You can control what your mind thinks or i mean reverse psychology. Just think that the person you're missing is just at work or something to that effect, and you'll see you won't feel the emptiness..
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• Italy
14 Apr 07
Gwa, great idea...I lways try to be busy to not think about it, but it's difficult :°
@Marie2473 (8519)
• Sweden
14 Apr 07
I just try to remember that they are on vacation coz they need it and also remind myself that they are having fun and it is just for a short period of time. Then i try to activate myself with fun stuff at home =)
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• Italy
14 Apr 07
Thanks a lot for your answer O
@cheezer (92)
• Singapore
14 Apr 07
I do miss someone before...actually, even now. She passed away 6 years ago at the age of 26. For the past few years, I have been thinking of her and wondering what she would be like if she hasn't gone home to be with the Lord. I still keep her mobile number in my phone...dreaming that one day if I call, she would be picking up her phone. But I know it won't happen coz the number would have been given to someone else. She passed away in Oct so come October, I'll become really moody again ;p
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• Italy
14 Apr 07
Gwa, understood, so sad...:"