@towongfoo27 on myLot

towongfoo27 @towongfoo27 (2986) • United States 17 Feb 11

Hello Mylot community. I have 3 sisters, but the youngest one calls only when she needs something, which really upset my mom. It upset her because my sister wants my mom to watch and/or raise her kid for her, so she can run off...

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towongfoo27 Thank you for responding ELicBxn!

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towongfoo27 @towongfoo27 (2986) • United States 17 Feb 11

Hello Mylot community. I have 3 sisters, but the youngest one calls only when she needs something, which really upset my mom. It upset her because my sister wants my mom to watch and/or raise her kid for her, so she can run off...

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towongfoo27 You took the words right out of my mouth, bryan3002!! Family should not be taken for granted nor as tools. She could give a little, ya know?

18 Feb 11

towongfoo27 @towongfoo27 (2986) • United States 17 Feb 11

Hello Mylot community. I have 3 sisters, but the youngest one calls only when she needs something, which really upset my mom. It upset her because my sister wants my mom to watch and/or raise her kid for her, so she can run off...

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towongfoo27 Thank you for responding kukueye!

18 Feb 11

towongfoo27 @towongfoo27 (2986) • United States 17 Feb 11

Hello Mylot community. I have 3 sisters, but the youngest one calls only when she needs something, which really upset my mom. It upset her because my sister wants my mom to watch and/or raise her kid for her, so she can run off...

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towongfoo27 God forbid anyone says anything to my baby sister, for mom will be there backing her up the second anyone does.

18 Feb 11

towongfoo27 @towongfoo27 (2986) • United States 17 Feb 11

Hello Mylot community. I have 3 sisters, but the youngest one calls only when she needs something, which really upset my mom. It upset her because my sister wants my mom to watch and/or raise her kid for her, so she can run off...

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towongfoo27 She does need to wake up a little!

18 Feb 11

towongfoo27 @towongfoo27 (2986) • United States 17 Feb 11

Hello Mylot community. I have 3 sisters, but the youngest one calls only when she needs something, which really upset my mom. It upset her because my sister wants my mom to watch and/or raise her kid for her, so she can run off...

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towongfoo27 Thank you potche for responding!

18 Feb 11

towongfoo27 @towongfoo27 (2986) • United States 17 Feb 11

Hello Mylot community. I have 3 sisters, but the youngest one calls only when she needs something, which really upset my mom. It upset her because my sister wants my mom to watch and/or raise her kid for her, so she can run off...

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towongfoo27 That is how it is in our family, too, unfortunately.

18 Feb 11

towongfoo27 @towongfoo27 (2986) • United States 17 Feb 11

Hello Mylot community. I have 3 sisters, but the youngest one calls only when she needs something, which really upset my mom. It upset her because my sister wants my mom to watch and/or raise her kid for her, so she can run off...

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towongfoo27 Thank you for your advice, Lilaclady!

18 Feb 11

towongfoo27 @towongfoo27 (2986) • United States 14 Feb 11

Hello Mylot community! I admit I see a therapist once a week to help me through my issues, and am not ashamed to admit it. But lately, it seems the nice therapist and I have come to a standstill, like there is little left to...

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towongfoo27 I hope it works, Dorannmwin, for I am starting to get real bored of the standard therapy. I usually talk about light things, and it is hard for me to open up I guess, but you are right, the worst thing that could happen is that I wouldn't make any progress. I...

17 Feb 11

towongfoo27 @towongfoo27 (2986) • United States 14 Feb 11

Hello Mylot community! I am in a good mood today, for I went for a walk around my town, and just basked in the sunshine! The sunshine helped, and the fact that my friend took me out to Subway today boosts my spirits as well. We...

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towongfoo27 Hi dorannmwin! I am thankful you guys found out sooner than later, right? I am also thankful for my friends, mom, and family! Thank you for responding dorannmwin! Have a good day dorannmwin!

17 Feb 11

towongfoo27 @towongfoo27 (2986) • United States 17 Feb 11

Hello Mylot community. I have 3 sisters, but the youngest one calls only when she needs something, which really upset my mom. It upset her because my sister wants my mom to watch and/or raise her kid for her, so she can run off...

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towongfoo27 Thank you for your insights, jillhill! Guess I am just concerned that my mom might be taken advantage of, for my sister would always leave her first child with my mom whenever she wanted to party with her friends. she would just take off for days, and I think...

17 Feb 11

towongfoo27 @towongfoo27 (2986) • United States 17 Feb 11

Hello Mylot community. I have 3 sisters, but the youngest one calls only when she needs something, which really upset my mom. It upset her because my sister wants my mom to watch and/or raise her kid for her, so she can run off...

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towongfoo27 Hi GardenGerty, you are right, I cannot speak up for my mom, she has to be the one to say no or yes, that is on her, but my mom is also alreayd permanently raising her first child, which is probably why my mom is hesitant. Can't say as I blame her.

17 Feb 11

towongfoo27 @towongfoo27 (2986) • United States 17 Feb 11

Hello Mylot community. I have 3 sisters, but the youngest one calls only when she needs something, which really upset my mom. It upset her because my sister wants my mom to watch and/or raise her kid for her, so she can run off...

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towongfoo27 Good point, sender621! I am also the oldest out of five chidlren on my mother's side, and I can relate to your saying all I can do is love them and try to show them that they don't have to need something to be in my or my mom's life. It just seems that my...

17 Feb 11

towongfoo27 @towongfoo27 (2986) • United States 17 Feb 11

Hello mylot community. I was just wondering what boundaries mean to you personally and in a group setting, for I just went to a class on them for free. It was interesting, for I described boundaries as a fence that allows some...

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towongfoo27 @towongfoo27 (2986) • United States 17 Feb 11

Hello Mylot community. I have 3 sisters, but the youngest one calls only when she needs something, which really upset my mom. It upset her because my sister wants my mom to watch and/or raise her kid for her, so she can run off...

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towongfoo27 I should try to be more open-minded though, for my mom did help me after all. I just think her resources (my mom's) are not what they used to be. If I could afford to help my sister, I would. Maybe I am just hurt cause she never calls me either, unless...

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towongfoo27 @towongfoo27 (2986) • United States 17 Feb 11

Hello Mylot community. I have 3 sisters, but the youngest one calls only when she needs something, which really upset my mom. It upset her because my sister wants my mom to watch and/or raise her kid for her, so she can run off...

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towongfoo27 Maybe I should just keep this between my sister and my mom, but my mom called me today in complaining about it, for she has enough demands placed on her already in raising my sister's first son. I would help out, but I barely am surviving myself finacially,...

17 Feb 11

towongfoo27 @towongfoo27 (2986) • United States 17 Feb 11

Hello Mylot community. I have 3 sisters, but the youngest one calls only when she needs something, which really upset my mom. It upset her because my sister wants my mom to watch and/or raise her kid for her, so she can run off...

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towongfoo27 My mom is burnt out though, from runnig the daycare, and is no longer 40 though, like when I had my son. I was barely out of highschool, and she was just starting her daycare then. I realize that what my mom did for me, she should do for the other adult...

17 Feb 11

towongfoo27 @towongfoo27 (2986) • United States 17 Feb 11

Hello Mylot community. I have 3 sisters, but the youngest one calls only when she needs something, which really upset my mom. It upset her because my sister wants my mom to watch and/or raise her kid for her, so she can run off...

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towongfoo27 @towongfoo27 (2986) • United States 16 Feb 11

Good Morning Mylot community! My doctor wants me to start taking Wellbutrin to help with depression, but I am nervous about it, because I don't reall knwo personally how it might affect me. I don't want to be all drugged-out...

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towongfoo27 Good point, bunnybon7, I guess I just have to wait and see how the new medicine will affect me personally, but I am hoping it will affect me in a postive way! Thank you for responding bunnybon7!

17 Feb 11

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