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ausnikki @ausnikki (4054) • Brisbane, Australia 1 Jun 07

When I first was starting to learn how to drive I started learning in a manual.My driving instructor was useless! During one lesson he would tell me to do something in a certain way and in the next when I did what he told me he...

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gr8life I can drive both manual and auto cars. I learned driving using manual car, it is a must here. I can relate to your experience as I also took my driving license twice. I was panic and in a hurry to get my driving license and it contribute to my failure. When I...

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go4amitshah @go4amitshah (1005) • India 12 Jun 07

Well the first think when i open my menu, what i look at is the price list! once we(me and my hubby) took his friends for dinner in a decent restaurant! and he ordered he ordered for everyone........ AND GUESS WHAT??? WITHOUT...

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Ashgun @Ashgun (472) 4 Jun 07

Today My husband and I got a serious dispute with my sister-in-law (SIL) and brother-in-law (BIL)... And since that i feel really very disturbed koz they said so many things about my husband and I that i feel like a total stranger...

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retardedrugrat Having more than one family living under the same roof, no matter how big the house is always a bad idea. As much as you try to compromise, eventually, both families start wishing for some peace and quiet, or one family doesn't like the way the other family...

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Ashgun @Ashgun (472) 4 Jun 07

Today My husband and I got a serious dispute with my sister-in-law (SIL) and brother-in-law (BIL)... And since that i feel really very disturbed koz they said so many things about my husband and I that i feel like a total stranger...

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soufiane1 sorry really sorry to see this !!! families on the same roof a big problem so just try to stelle down in somewhere not near yout family

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Ashgun @Ashgun (472) 4 Jun 07

Today My husband and I got a serious dispute with my sister-in-law (SIL) and brother-in-law (BIL)... And since that i feel really very disturbed koz they said so many things about my husband and I that i feel like a total stranger...

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psyche49f The best arrangement is to move out of that house as soon as you are stable enough. If that is not possible, try to let both sides cool down, then wait and see what happens. If your husband can talk it out with your MIL, so much the better. But if things...

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Ashgun @Ashgun (472) 4 Jun 07

Today My husband and I got a serious dispute with my sister-in-law (SIL) and brother-in-law (BIL)... And since that i feel really very disturbed koz they said so many things about my husband and I that i feel like a total stranger...

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Nykkee If I were you I would just move out. I coudn't stand haveing any type of roommate with me and my husband, especially family. As with almost everyone else that posted I agree that ther is really no resolveing something like this, it will only escalate. If your...

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Ashgun @Ashgun (472) 4 Jun 07

Today My husband and I got a serious dispute with my sister-in-law (SIL) and brother-in-law (BIL)... And since that i feel really very disturbed koz they said so many things about my husband and I that i feel like a total stranger...

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elisata hi Ashgun, A lot of advice is already given... I would like to add that in a quarrel people often say (or shout) more things and not in very well chosen words, than when they talk reasonably. Quarreling or fighting is just very emotional and when emotions...

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Ashgun @Ashgun (472) 4 Jun 07

Today My husband and I got a serious dispute with my sister-in-law (SIL) and brother-in-law (BIL)... And since that i feel really very disturbed koz they said so many things about my husband and I that i feel like a total stranger...

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rsa101 I agree with the opinions given here by other posters. No matter how big and spacious your house is, there is no space when your living under one roof. Being as far as you can with your BIL and SIL would do a great help in fixing the tension you are...

12 Jun 07

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Ashgun @Ashgun (472) 4 Jun 07

Today My husband and I got a serious dispute with my sister-in-law (SIL) and brother-in-law (BIL)... And since that i feel really very disturbed koz they said so many things about my husband and I that i feel like a total stranger...

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lexus54 I think that under the circumstances, it is better for you and your family to find another place, and move out on your own. After moving out, try and maintain as cordial a relationship with your BIL and SIL, and not harbour any bitterness or animosity. After...

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Ashgun @Ashgun (472) 4 Jun 07

Today My husband and I got a serious dispute with my sister-in-law (SIL) and brother-in-law (BIL)... And since that i feel really very disturbed koz they said so many things about my husband and I that i feel like a total stranger...

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lexus54 It is never easy living in the same household with another family. A lot of give and take is required from both sides to live in harmony. From what has happened, it seems there may be some underlying currents in the existing relationship, such that every...

12 Jun 07

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Ashgun @Ashgun (472) 4 Jun 07

Today My husband and I got a serious dispute with my sister-in-law (SIL) and brother-in-law (BIL)... And since that i feel really very disturbed koz they said so many things about my husband and I that i feel like a total stranger...

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Foxxee It's always hard when there is two families living under the same roof. Who is living with who though? Are they staying with you guys or are you staying with them? If they are staying with you, you could tell them it's time they start looking for their own...

12 Jun 07

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Ashgun @Ashgun (472) 4 Jun 07

Today My husband and I got a serious dispute with my sister-in-law (SIL) and brother-in-law (BIL)... And since that i feel really very disturbed koz they said so many things about my husband and I that i feel like a total stranger...

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student7 I have to go through it with my MIL. My suggestion is to not let them get under your skin. Maybe you and your husband can get out more. Sometimes making up excuses to go run an errand that can't wait until tomorrow is a good excuse. I know that my MIL...

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Ashgun @Ashgun (472) 4 Jun 07

Today My husband and I got a serious dispute with my sister-in-law (SIL) and brother-in-law (BIL)... And since that i feel really very disturbed koz they said so many things about my husband and I that i feel like a total stranger...

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dykimo I am sure, it will be very hard for both of you to handle this case. because, they are older than you, and normally older having bigger ego and more power to control. and for sure, it will be a never ending problem. so i suggest you to discuss this matter to...

12 Jun 07

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Ashgun @Ashgun (472) 4 Jun 07

Today My husband and I got a serious dispute with my sister-in-law (SIL) and brother-in-law (BIL)... And since that i feel really very disturbed koz they said so many things about my husband and I that i feel like a total stranger...

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rb200406 It is really sad & very painful situation to be in.As you have said that you have been been verbally abused.It is really diffucukt for anybody to be in a situation like this.Actually you must tell your mother in law .If not that whole people will turn against...

12 Jun 07

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Ashgun @Ashgun (472) 6 Jun 07

Please friend; i badly need some advice from your part!!! i had a discussion i think about 2 days ago and i got lots of sincere responses. I had to start a second discussion on that since i am feeling that i need some more of your...

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jenalyn Well, I wouldn't have a conversation over the phone about what happened unless it will be a long time before they return home. I definitely think getting an apartment of your own is a good idea. That may be what you should start your conversation with your...

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Ashgun @Ashgun (472) 3 May 07

hello everybody; i am quite new here and i cant undersatnd 1 thing maybe you can help me... each time i see stars with numbers in it. its just on the top of mylot members. i would just like to know whats the meaning of those...

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ESKARENA1 when you hit 100 posts you will be given a reputation star which will show your overall mylot reputation from 1 to 10. It is derived from all the plus and negative responses you get to your discussion answers. blessed be

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Ashgun @Ashgun (472) 3 May 07

I have got a little niece shez only 6 years old and she wants to gift her mum and dad a gift for each of them for mother's day! she is saving her little pocket money to buy those gifts and she asked me to help her to buy the...

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scarywhitegirl If her dad likes to read, maybe a paperback novel is in her price range? I know that my siblings and I used to always buy our dad Star Trek novels, because they were not too expensive for us to afford on our allowances, and he liked to read them.

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Ashgun @Ashgun (472) 3 May 07

I have got a little niece shez only 6 years old and she wants to gift her mum and dad a gift for each of them for mother's day! she is saving her little pocket money to buy those gifts and she asked me to help her to buy the...

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Savvynlady For the dad, just make it simple, like a hat that he can wear; one of them hats you see folks wear around like I have posted; some of them are not so expensive. Hope that works for you. I also like the keychain idea too. She is really sweet to do that for her...

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