Aspenn

@Aspenn (30)

United States • Age 40

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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Ridiculously UNFAIR laws

Ravenladyj @Ravenladyj (22902) • United States 14 May 07

So as some of you know, my neice ran away last Friday (still no word as of this morning)...well I was talkin to her mum this morning and she informed me that accordign to a cop she dealt with...If her daughter is found in someone...

law

unfair laws

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Aspenn That really is outrageous. My child is MY child until the age of 18 and I'll be damned if anyone thinks they can have a say in where she belongs. That really frustrates me! I hope that your niece is returned home safely, my heart aches for you. Blessings

15 May 07

Do certain songs make you cry?

Karmalina @Karmalina (647) • Australia 14 May 07

I have a few of these. I thought about it because I've heard all 3 in the last 24 hours. They are "Freebird" by Lynnard Skynnard, "Wild Horses" the Sundays and Rolling Stones versions both have that effect and "This Year's Love"...

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Aspenn Yes! The soundtrack from Armageddon and mainly the song by Aerosmith. I can't think of the name of it, but I'm sure you know what I'm talking about. I haven't heard these songs in about a year and a half. Armageddon was mine and my father's movie and he passed...

15 May 07

Does it meant that I am getting old?

crazynurse @crazynurse (7482) • United States 14 May 07

I can remember as a teen not appreciating whatever it was that kept my grandfather glued to his back porch watching his bird houses and feeders. Now, I so enjoy watching the two birdfeeders that we have put up right outside our...

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Aspenn No not at all! As we get older, time flies by and we learn to appreciate it more. Taking some time out to relax and reflect doesn't mean you are getting old, it just means you are becoming wiser and realizing that time is precious. I wish everyone would sit...

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Would you cut off your hair to make a wig for a Child with Cancer?

coolseeds @coolseeds (3919) • United States 14 May 07

My hair is about a fist from my belt. It is very hot and I am tired of it. My girlfriend wanted to see what I looked like with long hair so I grew it. Now I am tired of it and it must go. I decided last year that I was going...

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Aspenn Locksoflove is probably the best place to send your hair. You are doing a wonderful thing, you should be proud of yourself!

15 May 07

Two wrongs don't make right - Please, quit your personal attacks

Swtrose @Swtrose (3385) • Canada 14 May 07

If one believes in the old saying "Two wrongs don't make a right," how come there have been a lot of members resulting to name calling here on mylot. It simply doesn't make sense to me to name call. The best thing to do with...

insults

name calling

personal attacks

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Aspenn Name calling is done in the heat of the moment. Most people who do this, don't even get their point across as they are too heated with emotion. The best way to respond to any kind of personal attack or insult is to walk away and cool down. Form your thoughts...

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Your money or our's

mommey20032005 @mommey20032005 (264) • United States 14 May 07

I don't know about other people, but when your partner asks you to marry them everything becomes our's. Thats what I think. My fiance thinks other wise, since he is the one who works. and i don't because we can afford child care,...

relationships

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Aspenn It is our money. My husband works and I am a SAHM. Marriage is a partnership. I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, but your husband is being financially abusive. Yes, there is such a thing. He sounds very controlling and that isn't healthy for a good marriage. I...

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Feelings very hurt right now....

dopey22girl @dopey22girl (3319) • United States 13 May 07

Ok...so right now I am very upset. Let me tell you why: For Mother's Day I got my mom a book called Thank you for everything. And it has 100 pages of "Thank you For..." and then it would say something, such as: always being there...

life

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Aspenn Perhaps something along the lines of... "But most of all, thank you for allowing the opportunity for our relationship to grow and become stronger with each passing day. To fulfill the empty pages that we both long to be filled with love." Cheesy, but...

14 May 07

i'm not invited to my friend's wedding

brand4less @brand4less (1061) • Indonesia 14 May 07

i'm pretty sad today..i have my friend's wedding in 4 weeks and i'm 100%certain i'm not invited.i'm a woman and he's a man but we have been friends for 10 yrs-strictly platonic.he was one of my closest friends.ever since i found...

friend

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Aspenn I'm truly sorry you are having to go through this. He is not a waste of time, I'm assuming. Many people are blinded by love, and they will do anything to keep that love. So many relationships have the jealousy seed embedded deep within. This is not true love....

14 May 07

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Can you forgive someone who took advantage of your feelings and cheated you?

subha12 @subha12 (18440) • India 14 May 07

Can you really forgive someone who took the advantage of your feelings? I have seen this with one of my good friends. The guy was very clever it seems. He knew that the girl really cares for him. After realising it he proproposed...

cheating

relationship

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Aspenn I've only been truly hurt one time and I've never been able to forgive. People who are so hurtful to others don't deserve the time or energy of mine. It's better to move on and hope that their decision will affect them in some way to where they learn how to...

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What makes you believe in Love??

CarmelLove @CarmelLove (145) • United States 14 May 07

I know what makes me believe in love, But I was curious to see what makes others keep their belief in love. Love is such a powerful thing that believing in love it self helps me thorough the hard days..

love

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Aspenn I believe in love because I see my husband everyday and that is proof enough for me. Love hits you like a brick wall. When it happens there is no denying it. It takes longer for it to reach some than others.

14 May 07

J'Los mom wins jackpot of over 2.4 million.

Lifez2short @Lifez2short (4962) • United States 14 May 07

So J'Lo's mom was in Atlantic City playing the famous Wheel of Fortune game and wins the jackpot. She won 2.4 millions dollars at the casion. She won exectly 2,421,291.76. Not that she really needed the money before the winnning...

wheel of fortune game

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Aspenn Wow, must have had some great luck on her side. I would rather see money like that go to a needy family though. Hopefully she enjoys her money and has a lovely life :)

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What do you like - a hill station or a sea shore?

roshnichaudhary @roshnichaudhary (1160) • United States 14 May 07

If you have to spend a vacation with your family which place will you choose- a hill station or a sea shore?

tour

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Aspenn I am not sure what a hill-station is, but my answer would be the sea shore anyway. I love the water and ocean, and I would go there every chance I get. Water is very calming and relaxing. It will drown you into a meditative state.

14 May 07

Do you recommend me to message my 2 year old toddler?

roshnichaudhary @roshnichaudhary (1160) • United States 14 May 07

My toddler boy doesnot allow me to message. I don't know what to do. Should I quit it now?

massage

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Aspenn Massaging you mean? Massaging can be very beneficial for a sick child, but if he is uncomfortable being touched then I would not recommend pushing it. I would recommend finding out the root of why he does not want to be touched.

14 May 07

What dessert should I prefer to give my 2-year old baby?

roshnichaudhary @roshnichaudhary (1160) • United States 14 May 07

my baby is fond of ice-cream and chocolate cake. Should I give him this or something else?

dessert for baby

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Aspenn If your kiddo loves the sweets like me, try making their favorite dessert with added fruit. Make a chocolate cake with some raspberries or bananas baked into it. Make some vanilla wafer pudding. The bananas in this are great. Try making home-made smoothies out...

14 May 07

How long time should you wait to use your bath tub after............

roshnichaudhary @roshnichaudhary (1160) • United States 14 May 07

Cleaning it with chemicals. Because smell remains for a long time.

bath tub

cleaning

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Aspenn I also do not take a bath. The first time the shower is used after cleaning it is to take a shower. This way the soap will run off the leftover chemicals and the water will wash it all down the drain and off the walls as well.

14 May 07

How do you like to be hugged?

acc2size @acc2size (56) 14 May 07

A big hug from behind? A suprise hug? A slow and gentle hug?

hug

relationship

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Aspenn I like the fun playful hugs from my husband. It always takes away all the worries in the world and makes me laugh and smile.

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Will you throw away the left over food?

Madona1 @Madona1 (2096) • Gibraltar 14 May 07

Will you throw away the left over food or save them for the next day?

life

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Aspenn I try to keep all food as leftovers. I feel guilty when I throw food away as there are so many people starving in the world or I could be using it as a compost.

14 May 07

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