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Awinds @Awinds (2468) • United States 3 Aug 11

They say love is blind and irrational. They also say that love is the greatest feeling in the world - a type of ethereal happiness you don't feel everyday. Love is the stuff that leads to relationships and in some cases marriage....

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Awinds Both are fallible. It is foolish to rely on either one for to long. :)

26 Dec 11

Awinds @Awinds (2468) • United States 3 Aug 11

They say love is blind and irrational. They also say that love is the greatest feeling in the world - a type of ethereal happiness you don't feel everyday. Love is the stuff that leads to relationships and in some cases marriage....

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Awinds Well, we do have both for a reason. What you see makes sense - it seems one has the extreme the other does not and when we listen to both we can make a better decision. At times though one is better than the other. :)

23 Dec 11

Awinds @Awinds (2468) • United States 26 Nov 11

Well tonight, around 10:00 pm, my neighbor's - who lives just a house away from me - home went up into flames. We are not talking about a small cook stove fire - we are talking about a whole house that went up in flame. There was...

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Awinds I agree. What does it say about us as people when we just sit there and there is need literally right next door?

10 Dec 11

Awinds @Awinds (2468) • United States 26 Nov 11

Well tonight, around 10:00 pm, my neighbor's - who lives just a house away from me - home went up into flames. We are not talking about a small cook stove fire - we are talking about a whole house that went up in flame. There was...

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Awinds Well, we all have our limits. I suppose it comes down to how tight things are for you at that moment. :)

5 Dec 11

Awinds @Awinds (2468) • United States 11 Aug 11

Before 2009 my family was what one would call upper middle class. Then our - and millions of other people's - main source of income took a major hit. Since then I have had the opportunity to think about bills. Especially those...

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Awinds That does sound tight. Of course it is good you both have jobs - however that doesn't mean you are in paradise. I do hope things will - hour wise of course and not bill wise - will go up for you. :)

5 Dec 11

Awinds @Awinds (2468) • United States 11 Aug 11

Before 2009 my family was what one would call upper middle class. Then our - and millions of other people's - main source of income took a major hit. Since then I have had the opportunity to think about bills. Especially those...

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Awinds That sums it up pretty much. Rising everything. I just hope we all get some relief soon! :)

1 Dec 11

Awinds @Awinds (2468) • United States 11 Aug 11

Before 2009 my family was what one would call upper middle class. Then our - and millions of other people's - main source of income took a major hit. Since then I have had the opportunity to think about bills. Especially those...

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Awinds Out of debt so soon? You are quite the lucky one - and I really hope you can get out of debt as you plan to. Debt is what cripples one's finances and getting out of it a chief blessing. It is just good to hear about someone who is is getting out of debt -...

1 Dec 11

Awinds @Awinds (2468) • United States 14 Jul 11

You kid just reached eighteen, or your adult child is coming home again because they graduated college but have been unable to find a job. Do you charge them rent? Why or why not? Should parents not charge rent because of the...

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Awinds I am sorry to hear about your marriage - it sounds like it was quite rough! However I think what you are currently doing now and planning on doing for your father is much more kind than paying rent. It seems more helpful to. I do wish you and yours the best...

1 Dec 11

Awinds @Awinds (2468) • United States 26 Nov 11

Well tonight, around 10:00 pm, my neighbor's - who lives just a house away from me - home went up into flames. We are not talking about a small cook stove fire - we are talking about a whole house that went up in flame. There was...

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Awinds I'm sorry - I didn't mean to bring up unpleasant memories. That is quite unfortunate - however I do imagine loosing everything is quite a traumatic experience and then some.

27 Nov 11

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Awinds @Awinds (2468) • United States 26 Nov 11

Well tonight, around 10:00 pm, my neighbor's - who lives just a house away from me - home went up into flames. We are not talking about a small cook stove fire - we are talking about a whole house that went up in flame. There was...

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Awinds What you would do is most neighborly. The lady does indeed have a family - a lot of family. For now she is staying at another neighbor's. I am really glad the community didn't turn her away in her darkest hour. :)

27 Nov 11

Awinds @Awinds (2468) • United States 26 Nov 11

Well tonight, around 10:00 pm, my neighbor's - who lives just a house away from me - home went up into flames. We are not talking about a small cook stove fire - we are talking about a whole house that went up in flame. There was...

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Awinds That is a good plan - to not only help the one whose house is on fire but to also prepare for the worst just in case. It does seem wise to remove what is important when the neighbor's house is on fire!

27 Nov 11

Awinds @Awinds (2468) • United States 26 Nov 11

Well tonight, around 10:00 pm, my neighbor's - who lives just a house away from me - home went up into flames. We are not talking about a small cook stove fire - we are talking about a whole house that went up in flame. There was...

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Awinds You know what, that is an excellent point and you are the first to mention it. It is someone else yesterday but what if it is us tomorrow? Treat others are you want to be treated - that really is a good rule to live by.

27 Nov 11

Awinds @Awinds (2468) • United States 26 Nov 11

Well tonight, around 10:00 pm, my neighbor's - who lives just a house away from me - home went up into flames. We are not talking about a small cook stove fire - we are talking about a whole house that went up in flame. There was...

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Awinds Sounds like a plan to me. It is better than just walking around and watching what happens. :)

27 Nov 11

Awinds @Awinds (2468) • United States 26 Nov 11

Well tonight, around 10:00 pm, my neighbor's - who lives just a house away from me - home went up into flames. We are not talking about a small cook stove fire - we are talking about a whole house that went up in flame. There was...

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Awinds I don't think the lady will be coming back - I took a second look this morning and all that remains is the framework of her house. However I agree that victims of house fires have need and as neighbors it should be our desire and duty to help them in the ways...

27 Nov 11

Awinds @Awinds (2468) • United States 26 Nov 11

Well tonight, around 10:00 pm, my neighbor's - who lives just a house away from me - home went up into flames. We are not talking about a small cook stove fire - we are talking about a whole house that went up in flame. There was...

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Awinds You must have quite a good heart! :) The lady whose house was burned down is currently staying with another neighbor, for so now she has shelter. She also has a lot of family so all are hoping that her family will be able to help her long term - that is to...

26 Nov 11

Awinds @Awinds (2468) • United States 26 Nov 11

Well tonight, around 10:00 pm, my neighbor's - who lives just a house away from me - home went up into flames. We are not talking about a small cook stove fire - we are talking about a whole house that went up in flame. There was...

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Awinds I took a look at her house this morning. There is nothing left but the frame of the house, a few plastic container lids, and ash. Like your granddaughter, my neighbor pretty much lost everything. It is good both were not in their places of residence during the...

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Awinds @Awinds (2468) • United States 26 Nov 11

Well tonight, around 10:00 pm, my neighbor's - who lives just a house away from me - home went up into flames. We are not talking about a small cook stove fire - we are talking about a whole house that went up in flame. There was...

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Awinds I agree! When it comes to fire there is really nothing us little humans can do. I just thank God there was no wind - that would have spread the fire with no hesitation at all!

26 Nov 11

Awinds @Awinds (2468) • United States 26 Nov 11

Well tonight, around 10:00 pm, my neighbor's - who lives just a house away from me - home went up into flames. We are not talking about a small cook stove fire - we are talking about a whole house that went up in flame. There was...

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Awinds That makes sense. As far as I know 911 is an American thing only. However it is good that you have places to call for such emergencies. I agree that just standing by is cruel to those who own the burning house.

26 Nov 11

Awinds @Awinds (2468) • United States 26 Nov 11

Well tonight, around 10:00 pm, my neighbor's - who lives just a house away from me - home went up into flames. We are not talking about a small cook stove fire - we are talking about a whole house that went up in flame. There was...

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Awinds I think what you posted is the best remedy! I just really hope everyone will come together and help her - as you say, she will need everything she can get now and then some!

26 Nov 11

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