Boniswa1

@Boniswa1 (15)

South Africa • Age 58

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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Divorce

Boniswa1 @Boniswa1 (15) • South Africa 7 Dec 06

Why is it that so many people are getting divorced? About 90% of the people I know are divorced, me included. Is it maybe because it is so much easier today than in my grandparents' time? Or are we jumping into marriage too...

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Boniswa1 I want to thank everybody who responded to this discussion. I think the general consensus is that we jump into marriage to hastily and as one person said "we don't take the time to fall in love anymore". We see divorce as a quickfix solution to our problems....

12 Dec 06

Divorce

Boniswa1 @Boniswa1 (15) • South Africa 7 Dec 06

Why is it that so many people are getting divorced? About 90% of the people I know are divorced, me included. Is it maybe because it is so much easier today than in my grandparents' time? Or are we jumping into marriage too...

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15 people

Boniswa1 I can relate. Many people also stay in a marriage that is not happy and at the end of the day,it is the children that suffer. I have been raising my son alne for 18 years as a single parent and he is much better of that what he would have been had I stayed...

12 Dec 06

tattoos or boyfriends???

jemimay @jemimay (38) • Philippines 18 Apr 07

I always wanted to have a real body TATTOO but my boyfriend hate it! He doesn't like tattoos. What should I do??

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Boniswa1 I always wanted to have a real body TATTOO but my boyfriend hate it! He doesn't like tattoos. What should I do??

18 Apr 07

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Divorce

Boniswa1 @Boniswa1 (15) • South Africa 7 Dec 06

Why is it that so many people are getting divorced? About 90% of the people I know are divorced, me included. Is it maybe because it is so much easier today than in my grandparents' time? Or are we jumping into marriage too...

99 responses •

15 people

Boniswa1 Congrats! It is a funny hing how people change after the deed is done. My ex changed radically after the marriage and suddenly felt that he "owned" me. Good thing you are getting to know your next partner well before making thecommittment. Bx

12 Dec 06

What is your opinion about South Africa's policy on HIV/AIDS medication?

volschenkh @volschenkh (1043) • South Africa 29 Nov 06

You probably heard that South Africa has on numerous occasions emphasized good nutrition (garlic beetroot etc.) as the cure for AIDS. What is your opinion? Lets reflect on this issue in some detail!

hiv aids nutrition

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Boniswa1 Dear Volschenkh. Thanx for your very insightfull reply. I like you reasoning and way of thinking. I think in South Africa, and Africa in general, we need much help in combatting the virus. The problem is mostly ignorance. The stigma associated with AIDS is...

2 Dec 06