Samuel Tivlumun Shima

@SamShima (71)

Nigeria • Age 64

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Cooking Pork Sinigang (Soured Boiled Pork)

rebel_woman06 @SIMPLYD (90717) • Philippines 2 Apr 13

I like cooking simple yet delicious foods. Today, our daughter arrived from Manila, for her school vacation. She's still sleeping since she arrived this morning, because of her overnight trip. I am surprising her by...

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Samuel Tivlumun Shima It is a good thing to cooking native delicacies. Back here in Nigeria some people like 'ewedu' soup, others prefer 'yakuwa' soup with boiled yam while others found favour with 'ogbono' soup. The list is endless.

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If you could not sleep and also hungry, would you get up and eat?

taiwanlife @taiwanlife (745) • Philippines 2 Apr 13

I am eating now. If I were younger, I would have just prepared an instant cup noodles and ate the remaining apple strudel in the fridge. Back in my country, I was not lactose intolerant then or maybe I was but I never really...

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Samuel Tivlumun Shima I simply eat at anytime I am hungry. Way back in Africa, particularly Nigeria, the wether condition is favourable that one can eat whatever they desired at all times. All these facts put together, one must be desireous of balanced diet.

3 Apr 13

Finally I have a good Routine

echoforever @echoforever (5180) • United States 2 Apr 13

I started trying to earn online again back in August of 2012. The sites that I go to have changed up some, also having a lot of times when I couldn't be consistent. Now I have a good routine that I am keeping to daily. I can go...

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Samuel Tivlumun Shima Online business is quite lucrative and much more convenient especially for a family person. Imagine you are in the family house with your family taking care of the children, pets and still have the time for online trends. MyLot especially is one that never...

3 Apr 13

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Do you care about what other people think?

Aja103654 @Aja103654 (5644) • Philippines 2 Apr 13

Why are people care so much about what other people care about them? It is self-limiting and rather unhealthy. There is truly little benefit to caring what other people think. Though it can be useful to know what other people...

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Samuel Tivlumun Shima It is natural for other persons to feel concerned about others. Man is not an island, that is why we have communities everywhere. It is only bad when people are backbiting others to see that their talked about is run down. Praise your fellow man where it is...

3 Apr 13

My son told me he wants a step dad............

mariaperalta @mariaperalta (19073) • Mexico 2 Apr 13

I know he is hurting now... After we talked last night about my ex, his dad. He looked me in the eyes and sad " I love you mom, but I want a step dad" I saw tears in his eyes...

dad

son

step dad

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Samuel Tivlumun Shima Even in the presence of the father, the mother plays a vital role in the family especially in the keeping and up-keep of infants like this one. Please, develop the habit that which does not cause anger, it will be better for him, yourself and any member of...

3 Apr 13

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I Want to quit Smoking but i can't

Jemwel @jembizz21 (71) • Philippines 16 Mar 13

I started smoking when i was 14 years old and until now i'm smoking. I am 25 years old with a wife and 2 kids. I am worried that if i don't quit smoking i might have a sickness. My kids are too young and i wanted to provide...

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Samuel Tivlumun Shima Smoking, like Alcohol is a spirit. You need a stronger spirit to counter them. Contact your spiritual leader, pastor, Rev. Father, etc. for spiritual intervention. Pray very well to God for His divine intervention.

18 Mar 13

Different ways to react for an important news around the world.

alilin28 @alilin28 (1527) • Uruguay 5 Mar 13

As you know, venezuela´s president died recently, I wont talk if you liked it or not, im not talking about politic topics, I just realised that many people say bad things to this person, others loved him.. Differents ways to...

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Samuel Tivlumun Shima In this case culture and one's behaviour matters. In my culture and tradition, no matter the enmity with your fellow human being, you empress some kind grief/sorrow. Some people have the courage to abuse and insult even the corpses. That is their culture turns...

12 Mar 13

feeling sad, because I lost an exam ;(

alilin28 @alilin28 (1527) • Uruguay 5 Mar 13

dont you ever feel sad when you lost an exam in your studing time? an important exam??? The only thing I will do, would be study more and more.

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Samuel Tivlumun Shima I can say it is really sad. However I, never failed any examination in my life. The nearest I used to have is weak pass. The best thing is to study hard and avoid failure in all human endeavour.

12 Mar 13

study and work... work and study.. does it possible?

alilin28 @alilin28 (1527) • Uruguay 5 Mar 13

hi friends, how are you? what do you think about people who works and study at the same time? is that possible? Does everybody separate and have time for both activities? Would it be disattend any of them while we are paying...

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Samuel Tivlumun Shima I am working full time and was once a student at a University. It all depends on your strength, relationship with your employer and other tight schedules. So it is possible to be a worker and at the same time a student.

12 Mar 13

Is it the landlords, or tenents responsibility?

911Ricki @911Ricki (13588) • Canada 26 Dec 12

Alright where I work they rent the building from the landlord. Now our toilet hasnt been working properly for a few weeks. Everytime they say it's the landlords responsibility, he comes fixes it enough to make it work, then...

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Samuel Tivlumun Shima It depends on the contractual agreement. If the landlord and tenant agreed on who should fix it, then it is that. All the same, somebody's business should be everybody's business.

12 Feb 13

Appropriate Age for Having Relationship

cui_hezron @cui_hezron (75) • United States 26 Dec 12

I come thinking of this. What is the appropriate age for having relationship? We all know love is important. Is there a limitation of that? I can't understand other people like mostly the pre-adolescent ones, they have their...

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Samuel Tivlumun Shima This statement 'relationship' is open. When you say having relationship means several kinds of such. It could be bed mate, pen pal, play mate and so on. However, friendship has no age barrier, it is open. Unless when it involves bed-mating it is suggested...

12 Feb 13

I'm sorry... I still love her...

akhaniemar @akhaniemar (122) • Philippines 25 Dec 12

They were a cute couple, almost perfect I guess. But then, by the time everything seems to be so right, everything suddenly went wrong. She was very happy, it's everything she ever wanted, to have a very loving,caring, sweet and...

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Samuel Tivlumun Shima The guy could be suffering from indecision which could sometimes turn out to be very dangerous. You are not done with your former girlfriend and you took up serious affairs with the next only to dump - men you have to be very careful.

12 Feb 13

Have you ever fostered an animals?

911Ricki @911Ricki (13588) • Canada 24 Dec 12

I have thought about it in the past, and it was brought up today. I know Marco has an attitude, and not sure if he would get along with them. Many of them get aggressive, or behaviour problems because of the lack of...

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Samuel Tivlumun Shima Yes, I have fostered even birds like pigeon, fowls, ducks and many more. Animals like rabbits, goats, sheep, cows among others. The pigeon is such a loving bird while rabbits are also wonderful.

12 Feb 13

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how addictive it could be social networks?can interfere in our real social life?

alilin28 @alilin28 (1527) • Uruguay 11 Feb 13

how addictive it could be social networks?can interfere in our real social life? I was thinking about how people feels when they are interacting with people around the world, with cyber friends, the dependance that computer makes...

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Samuel Tivlumun Shima Computer network is simply more than your immediate environment/community. It is the entire world while handling a computer especially on the internet. To be sincere while discussing with people or friends on facebook and twitter it is not easy to drop and you...

12 Feb 13

Today I am having Christmas and meeting two more of my new grandkids!

jillhill @jillhill (37353) • United States 23 Dec 12

My son got a divorce this fall and has met a new gal. She is really nice and has three kids. One lives with her....the other two with their dad in Wisconsin. I have never met them. It was a challenge to shop for their Christmas...

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Samuel Tivlumun Shima I have a twelve-year-old daughter and three older boys, whenever I went to the market to buy clothes for them, the boys' clothes would be bought with ease, but for the girl it is either oversize or undersized, unless I dedicate a whole day for her clothing.

8 Feb 13

The sequel of the end of the world????

chunxiao @chunxiao (66) • China 23 Dec 12

oh,my god.It is so disappointing that my take-home salary is not as many as that I have expected.I had intended to send some money to my dad.I can deduct my living expenses from my salary,then send the left to my dad.However,the...

a bad day

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Samuel Tivlumun Shima It can't be the end of the world. Your father can understand the situation if you tell him the truth. Plead with him, after all you said your salary was paid wrongly. I hope this will be rectified immediately.

8 Feb 13

Have You Changed Tradition?

Jennifer @LovingMyBabies (85292) • Valdosta, Georgia 23 Dec 12

When I was younger the gifts under the tree were never wrapped. They were just sitting there and when we came down the stairs we could see them all. We only had the gifts from my parents wrapped. I don't know if the elves were...

changed

gifts

tradition

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Samuel Tivlumun Shima It is a matter of choice as for wrapping and unwrapping of gifts. Even in churches, some hide their offer while others say it should be open and flung. Culture and traditions are dynamic as well as language, they change with time.

8 Feb 13

My parents are forcing me to arranged marriage

Dassodils @Dassodils (2010) • India 3 Feb 13

Hai friends... I am already in love with my collegemate.means my senior.I can not live with out him.He is really caring and loving me so much.I want to marry him.I am sure that he will be a very perfect partner.He is such a...

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Samuel Tivlumun Shima Thanks to Dassodils, You have denied us of your age and what college level. About your culture and marriage rights, we have discovered that your parents CAN as well choose a partner for you. Fine, let me tell you that your parents cannot give you stone instead...

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What is more enjoyable, be a child or a parent?

Shavkat @Shavkat (140924) • Philippines 22 Dec 12

Some people wished to turn back the time as a child. Being a child, you don't need to worry anything; the parents are always there to provide everything. How about for the parents?

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Samuel Tivlumun Shima All the same everybody is a child before the Lord God. But here on earth we are foster parents and under this fora we are open to God's wisdom as to what He expects us to do before Him. At this instance, you are happy as a parent rather than a babe.

8 Feb 13

How important is the time you go to bed?

coldnpale @coldnpale (555) • Greece 21 Dec 12

I overheard some ladies talking today. One said that if you go to bed after 23:00 then the sleep doesn't help you the same, as it does if you sleep earlier, no matter how long you sleep. I was just curious, does anyone know if...

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Samuel Tivlumun Shima All body needs rest. Sleep early, the body rests well sleep late the body rests not sufficiently - simple. Not to over-rest anyway.

8 Feb 13