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Ida Bassford @Simly_Me (51) 30 Jul 16

People never cease to amaze me. I don't get how it's alright for half a family to act, do and say what they want but it isn't alright for the other half. Who makes the rules? I'm a firm believer that each individual has the right...

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Ida Bassford Maybe in a situation where the person feels threatened in a legitimate way.

31 Jul 16

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anthony davis @lookatdesktop (27143) • Dallas, Texas 29 Jul 16

People, get real. If the police are starting to buy their own bullet proof vests, then I think it a good idea for us to buy the same thing just in case. I already know a few people who are my friends, who have purchased not only...

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Ida Bassford @lookatdesktop I agree, but it's not just the terrorists we have to worry about. We are killing our own people, and for what? Because they have a distorted version of what loyalty is? Because they want to "prove" themselves? Because they have no respect for...

29 Jul 16

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Ida Bassford @Simly_Me (51) 24 Jul 16

I don't usually go anywhere. Part of the reason is because I only have public transportation right now. Then there is the fact that I don't usually have anyone to go anywhere with. As I've said before, I am single. I have gone on...

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Ida Bassford @Mike197602 I know that I am attracted to him, that is not a question in my mind. With that being said, it looks like the advice I am receiving here is all the same. It's very good advice and I'm just going to swallow my fear and go on a few more dates. I have...

24 Jul 16

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Ida Bassford @Simly_Me (51) 24 Jul 16

I don't usually go anywhere. Part of the reason is because I only have public transportation right now. Then there is the fact that I don't usually have anyone to go anywhere with. As I've said before, I am single. I have gone on...

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Ida Bassford I've been on a few dates with him but they have been months apart. He has asked to go on more dates with me without so much time in between because of that reason. I did agree to go on dates with him without waiting months in between. I know that I like him...

24 Jul 16

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Ida Bassford @Simly_Me (51) 24 Jul 16

I don't usually go anywhere. Part of the reason is because I only have public transportation right now. Then there is the fact that I don't usually have anyone to go anywhere with. As I've said before, I am single. I have gone on...

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Ida Bassford I didn't "leave him hanging" when he approached me with this. I am a decent person and I never said there isn't a "spark". I don't know if I'm ready to move from a friendship to a relationship. I did tell him this is something I will need to seriously think...

24 Jul 16

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Ida Bassford @Simly_Me (51) 15 Jul 16

There's so much going through my head right now. I'm not happy with any aspect of my life right now, but don't know where to begin to make changes. I get so overwhelmed trying to figure it out that it becomes frustrating.

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Ida Bassford I'm usually very good at being able to put things into perspective and work things out. Things have spiraled downhill quickly and I can't even pinpoint when or what started it. I don't usually put my business out there but since joining Mylot it has helped me....

15 Jul 16

Ida Bassford @Simly_Me (51) 15 Jul 16

There's so much going through my head right now. I'm not happy with any aspect of my life right now, but don't know where to begin to make changes. I get so overwhelmed trying to figure it out that it becomes frustrating.

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Ida Bassford In a matter of about a month my life has become complicated. Not used to this because everything has happened pretty much all at once. I like life, just not happy with the way it has been going.

15 Jul 16

Ida Bassford @Simly_Me (51) 8 Jul 16

I haven't been on for a while because I have been dealing with some family issues. I have hypothyroidism and have to take medication every day for the rest of my life for it. It is a huge struggle for me because I have a very hard...

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Ida Bassford Yes I agree. She is doing much better now that she has the medication needed and is very active with making sure she remembers to take it. She's even starting to look better and not so tired and weak.

15 Jul 16

Ida Bassford @Simly_Me (51) 13 Jul 16

My ex recently called me, which wasn't very surprising. We remained friends after I ended our 7 year relationship. He's a good guy and a very hard worker but he has a really bad drinking problem and that caused our relationship to...

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Ida Bassford I told him the same thing, that he will not stop drinking unless he's doing it for himself. I know he would only try to stop drinking in hopes of getting me back because we went this route years ago and it obviously didn't end well. Unfortunately it seems...

15 Jul 16

Ida Bassford @Simly_Me (51) 27 Jun 16

I am new to this and have no idea what I'm doing or what it is I'm supposed to be doing. I get that we are here for discussions. That's pretty much all I know, besides the fact that there is some type of payment for this. Anyone...

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Ida Bassford Thank you Barbara. I'm starting to get the hang of it now lol. I like this because I have come across some very helpful and nice people. I actually feel comfortable discussing things on my mind on here because I don't have that fear of being judged like I do...

13 Jul 16

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Jo Ann @akalinus (44332) • United States 27 Jun 16

People tell me the strangest things. Today a guy came over and told me that he and his wife really aren't married because he never divorced the first woman. He also told me that they sleep in the same bed but don't have intimate...

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Ida Bassford @akalinus Sometimes that's all people need. They may feel that they have no one to turn to so they find kind people in the community and just have to tell someone. Not for advice, like you said, just for anyone to listen and acknowledge them.

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Ida Bassford @Simly_Me (51) 29 Jun 16

I'm tired of being lonely. Tired of not having that person there that I can talk to, laugh with, spend time with. That man there to comfort me when I need it, as well as comfort him when he needs it. Tired of not wanting to go...

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Ida Bassford I've tried the online dating too and it turned out to be the same as you. I have a dog, she's the family dog, but she and I have a bond. I also crochet in my spare time but it I still have that missing piece. I'm sure one day eventually but for now I guess I...

1 Jul 16

Ida Bassford @Simly_Me (51) 29 Jun 16

I'm tired of being lonely. Tired of not having that person there that I can talk to, laugh with, spend time with. That man there to comfort me when I need it, as well as comfort him when he needs it. Tired of not wanting to go...

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Ida Bassford @satriani92 To be honest I just lie and say I'm happy being alone because I don't want to get into a long drawn out discussion with my family about it. They just don't understand.

29 Jun 16

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