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tjades @tjades (3590) • Jamaica 18 Mar 09

An item of news recently was about a six year old girl who was molested by a teeange boy (19 year old I believe). The mother related that she was giving the child a bath in the evening when she noticed the child wincing when...

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barefoot48066 It would be maddening to be in the position of the parents in such a case, but people can't just go around dispensing their version of justice willy-nilly and ignoring the law. If everyone did that, the world would be more of a madhouse than it already is. The...

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tjades @tjades (3590) • Jamaica 18 Mar 09

An item of news recently was about a six year old girl who was molested by a teeange boy (19 year old I believe). The mother related that she was giving the child a bath in the evening when she noticed the child wincing when...

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alexajanea I agree the best thing would be for people like that to be locked up but what do you do in the mean time. This is why we as parents need to be very active in our childrens lives and now what are children are doing at all times and who they are around. These...

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tjades @tjades (3590) • Jamaica 18 Mar 09

An item of news recently was about a six year old girl who was molested by a teeange boy (19 year old I believe). The mother related that she was giving the child a bath in the evening when she noticed the child wincing when...

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tjades I love the idea of forcing him out of the neighbourhood but the thought of him still being out there and having access to other children is unnerving. These people sometimes have a way of marking and following their victims around while laying low. I think...

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tjades @tjades (3590) • Jamaica 18 Mar 09

An item of news recently was about a six year old girl who was molested by a teeange boy (19 year old I believe). The mother related that she was giving the child a bath in the evening when she noticed the child wincing when...

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alexajanea I would be torn between letting the law handle or doing something myself. I could not remain living next door and would find a way to move for sure. As a parent I would want him to be punished and might want to hurt him but I wouldnt because my kids need me...

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tjades @tjades (3590) • Jamaica 18 Mar 09

An item of news recently was about a six year old girl who was molested by a teeange boy (19 year old I believe). The mother related that she was giving the child a bath in the evening when she noticed the child wincing when...

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laglen @laglen (19759) • United States 19 Mar 09

I have a fifteen year old. I feel her growing up and not needing me as much. I stay as involved as I can with out smothering her. I drive her to and from school, give rides to her friends. This way, they chatter and I hear what is...

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laglen @laglen (19759) • United States 19 Mar 09

I have a fifteen year old. I feel her growing up and not needing me as much. I stay as involved as I can with out smothering her. I drive her to and from school, give rides to her friends. This way, they chatter and I hear what is...

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rsa101 I don't have one yet but I think you are doing just fine. You allowing space for your daughter but then being aware to her whereabouts and happenings is just admirable for you. Getting bonding time with her also helps you two to become open with each other. I...

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laglen @laglen (19759) • United States 19 Mar 09

I have a fifteen year old. I feel her growing up and not needing me as much. I stay as involved as I can with out smothering her. I drive her to and from school, give rides to her friends. This way, they chatter and I hear what is...

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laglen Thank you. I want ot enjoy her for the limited time I still have....... :)

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laglen @laglen (19759) • United States 19 Mar 09

I have a fifteen year old. I feel her growing up and not needing me as much. I stay as involved as I can with out smothering her. I drive her to and from school, give rides to her friends. This way, they chatter and I hear what is...

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bmorehouse1 My children are all past the teen years now. Those teen years are very trying for both parent and teen. The best thing is to keep the lines of communication open. If you get mad at your teen, walk away. Come back later and talk in a calm tone of voice....

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laglen @laglen (19759) • United States 19 Mar 09

I have a fifteen year old. I feel her growing up and not needing me as much. I stay as involved as I can with out smothering her. I drive her to and from school, give rides to her friends. This way, they chatter and I hear what is...

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laglen Thank you for your input. I agree. It is nice to hear it from someone who has already lived it!

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laglen @laglen (19759) • United States 19 Mar 09

I have a fifteen year old. I feel her growing up and not needing me as much. I stay as involved as I can with out smothering her. I drive her to and from school, give rides to her friends. This way, they chatter and I hear what is...

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elmolovesu Hi laglen. I understand just how you feel. My daughter is thirteen...I still can't believe that sometimes...there are moments when I also feel unwanted. But I guess I could say that we are pretty much connected...hope it stays that way. I think you do have a...

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laglen @laglen (19759) • United States 19 Mar 09

I have a fifteen year old. I feel her growing up and not needing me as much. I stay as involved as I can with out smothering her. I drive her to and from school, give rides to her friends. This way, they chatter and I hear what is...

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proudmammabear I think you are doing an amazing job!!!! I have 4 kids, my oldest is a son he is 14, my next is a daughter and she is 11, the next two are boys and they are 6 and 3. With the older two we will get the younger ones to bed nd we sit, watch t.v and talk. We...

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ishi23 @ishi23 (71) • United States 19 Mar 09

This question has always bothered me that why do people have kids?? is it to fill emptiness of your life or because of social pressure or you just wanted? I have asked this question to many people and many of them didn't know why...

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TLChimes @TLChimes (4822) • United States 20 Mar 09

[/b]Not a Referral Link[b] http://abcnews.go.com/US/AutismNews/story?id=6848289&page=1 This boy is an 18 year old non-verbal autistic being raised by his well educated professor single mother. Then he beat her to death...

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TLChimes He should be held for what he did. Very true. But I think that you are right that it goes back to something in his world that wasn't right and all this probably could have been avoided.

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TLChimes @TLChimes (4822) • United States 20 Mar 09

[/b]Not a Referral Link[b] http://abcnews.go.com/US/AutismNews/story?id=6848289&page=1 This boy is an 18 year old non-verbal autistic being raised by his well educated professor single mother. Then he beat her to death...

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yuriyuuki1213 i watch alot about autism.. 'they say autism has their own world..' no offence.. we shouldnt have to blame the boy for doing such a thing.. maybe something bad happen or something makes him do that. its going to do with his parents, teachers and therapists...

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TLChimes @TLChimes (4822) • United States 20 Mar 09

[/b]Not a Referral Link[b] http://abcnews.go.com/US/AutismNews/story?id=6848289&page=1 This boy is an 18 year old non-verbal autistic being raised by his well educated professor single mother. Then he beat her to death...

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tjdas83 @tjdas83 (178) • Malaysia 21 Mar 09

I try to do this but its kinda irritating cause by doing this, I tend to go to the loo often. This is not cool when you are at work. Hehehe. Is it hard to put to practice, or does it came naturally to ya'll? Having a small bladder...

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tjdas83 I think my problem is that I drink juices and coffee more than water. Hmmm something to think about. Hehehe. Thanks for the response. Happy mylotting.

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tjdas83 @tjdas83 (178) • Malaysia 21 Mar 09

I try to do this but its kinda irritating cause by doing this, I tend to go to the loo often. This is not cool when you are at work. Hehehe. Is it hard to put to practice, or does it came naturally to ya'll? Having a small bladder...

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sagnik42 i don't count or want the number to be 8 or something.when i feel like drinking water i drink it.i think it is above 8 because whenever i drink water i drink a lot.maybe 2-3 glasses.3-4 times a day and that makes it over 8 surely

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tjdas83 @tjdas83 (178) • Malaysia 21 Mar 09

I try to do this but its kinda irritating cause by doing this, I tend to go to the loo often. This is not cool when you are at work. Hehehe. Is it hard to put to practice, or does it came naturally to ya'll? Having a small bladder...

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tjdas83 Yeah I do the tumbler thing too, but I estimate it to be close to about 3 glasses. Thanks for the response ;)

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