balaji85in

@balaji85in (459)

India • Age 40

Joined myLot 15 years ago

Happiness and sadness both should be in our control and should not be out of control

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it's hard to think what to write!

tess_quinain @tess_quinain (1148) • Philippines 28 Jun 12

I've been running out of thoughts to write and share here on mylot. I don't know what's happening to me. I seldom participate here on mylot it's because I have nothing to write about. Sometimes I post comments but I really try to...

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balaji85in Human Mind is deeper than ocean and wider than sky.. Thoughts are like a water which may evaporate but it wont get destroyed unless we die.. Our thoughts, creativity, and attitude everything depends the atmosphere.. Keep searching in your brain.. Plenty of...

29 Jun 12

I'm free. I'm single.

tess_quinain @tess_quinain (1148) • Philippines 2 Feb 12

Since I was in a relationship, I rarely have time with my friends. For six years, I spent most of my time with my exboyfriend. And now I just feel so good because I can have more time for myself , my friends and most especially...

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balaji85in I agree with your view. Even i too realized the same thing when i was with my girlfriend. I hardly spent times with my friends and family members. Its a kind of pain. There is a lot of differences between happy and peace. Happiness is a temporary and peace is...

2 Feb 12

I am so happy that a friend of mine helped me.

tess_quinain @tess_quinain (1148) • Philippines 6 Oct 11

It is good to have friends. I am so happy today because a friend of mine helped me solve my problem. Though my boyfriend left me, but i am glad i have friends who accept me and willing to help me when i am in need. I felt bad...

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balaji85in Hi tess.. Feeling so sad to hear that your boyfriend left you. And i agree with your view that friends are the only people who'll be a great adviser, well wisher, etc., I also haves a same kind of bitter experiences in relationship.. In many situations,...

6 Oct 11

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I wonder what's your first impression on me.

tess_quinain @tess_quinain (1148) • Philippines 6 Sep 11

First impressions last! Most people i meet for the first time say that their first impression on me is a shy type and a quiet person. And, so am I!! But later on, they would say that you're not that really quiet.lol What about...

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balaji85in Well !!! My first impression on you is you are a jovial type. Same time you are a most sensitive person. Its quite difficult to convince you if your beloved one did anything wrongful activity.. You are a lovable girl, God believer. Tell me how much of its...

6 Sep 11

I miss being a student, do you?

tess_quinain @tess_quinain (1148) • Philippines 12 Aug 11

I miss being a student. I only have to worry my grades and my teachers. I have much time to enjoy and do things i want to do. But now? I do have limited time. i worry a lot of things. I can't do things I enjoy for I am so busy...

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balaji85in Hi tess. I admire your smart analysis about life. Yeah, i do feel a lot about the things which you shared. It has been time tabled like that.. But we can enjoy our life in the way which we would like to be. Its not a constant. But you see, when we are a teen...

12 Aug 11

Are Men really insensitive?

tess_quinain @tess_quinain (1148) • Philippines 27 Jul 11

I now hate my bf for not calling me and sending me texts. I know he's busy but why can't he just spend a minute to say "hi.. how are you?'. I feel like he's not thinking of me anymore. I always miss him. I always keep in touch...

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balaji85in Hey tess.. I can understand your feelings. But not men are insensitive. You are saying that he is in busy schedule. Also you can understand that he is not contacting you because of his schedule only. Then, why you say that you hate your bf. But being not even...

6 Aug 11

Is it best to feel guity or forgive ourselves?

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 1 Aug 11

Learning to accept the things that we perceive as wrong can be difficult for many people. Most of us were brought up to accept that it is normal to feel guilty about our actions and that doing so is the right thing to do. Even...

guilty feelings

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balaji85in Hi friend . Human life is a form of all sort of feelings and emotions. If we come to know that we have did something wrong, then we will really feel guilty, Because our mind conscious wont allow us to be happy or peace in that situation. Also it...

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How do you handle pain?

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 2 Aug 11

Most of us are not good at handling pain, and when it comes our way we tend to move past it as quickly as possible,take a pill and brush it under the rug. This however, is not always the best option, not only because it may be a...

honor

resist

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balaji85in Hi friend. Yes you are correct. Most of us are not good at handling pain.. Because we are not ready to accept it.. Pains gives us tears, Pain is a kind of negative sign. So we tend to move past it as quickly as possible.. Time is the best solution to heal.. So...

3 Aug 11

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Oh my G kives you? I cannot believe I missed that error.

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163772) • Garden Grove, California 2 Aug 11

I have really been more careful lately to preview and to edit but I somehow moved my left hand over one key and got kives instead of loves. Am I the only one who makes these dumb errors and always sees them just after I hit post...

edit

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balaji85in Hi Hatley. I did this type of mistakes many a times.. Its sometimes happens like that even after previewing.. Its an usual mistake only. No need to worry my friend.. This is an experience in your Journey of myLot.. Not only in myLot.. Also Everywhere.. Don't...

2 Aug 11

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learning piano: too late or not?

tess_quinain @tess_quinain (1148) • Philippines 2 Aug 11

I am in my 20's and still love to learn the piano. I have had this dream when I was in elementary but due to financial inadequacy i could not afford to buy a piano nor to have a piano class. Now, I am asking... is it too late for...

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balaji85in I am highly interested in Guitar.. But when i was studying i am not supposed to learn it.. Now i don't have time to learn.. Yes there is no age for learn anything.. Meanwhile we are learner forever.. Still we are learning many things in our life day by day.....

2 Aug 11