bandirae

@bandirae (16)

United States • Age 45

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What Keeps You Faithful To Your Partner ?

janisspaggiari59 @janisspaggiari59 (656) • United States 27 Jan 08

Is it your faith,your upbringing,your respect ? What keeps you loyal ?

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bandirae I'd have to say respect. I just couldn't go out and cheat on someone just because. I've always been that way. Plus, as many times as i have been cheated on, i wouldn't ever want to put anyone in those shoes. So i would say i respect him enough not to do that,...

27 Jan 08

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When you are upset, do you try to hide it?

berryliciousme @berryliciousme (1003) • Philippines 13 Jan 08

When I am upset, I try to hide it. But for some people, they try to tell the other person about what they feel. So, how do you handle it when you are upset?

emotions

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bandirae When i am upset i start cleaning franticly. I don't feel like talking at that point and i try to hide behind something. Then maybe later on or the next day i will open up and talk, but not always.

27 Jan 08

Mother and father killed

missapolis @missapolis (5) • United States 25 Jan 08

Last night did you see the one where the 10 year old girl, saw her mother and father get kill, that was so sad.

10 year old girl sees killing

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bandirae Yes that was horrible especially since she was so young. But at least they got the killer. I am so addicted to that show. What about the one where the 2 yr. old got shot in the back seat then come to find out it was her uncle, i think. That was awful for...

27 Jan 08

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movies

catriana13 @catriana13 (245) • United States 24 Jan 08

Which of his movies is your favorite? I have a hard time choosing. I'm torn between the Matrix trilogy, Constantine, and the Lake house.

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bandirae He's a great actor and i like all his films but my favorite would have to be, "Point Break". I've seen that movie so many times.

24 Jan 08

Will you take a shower everyday?

youless @youless (113954) • Guangzhou, China 23 Jan 08

I am curious about it. In fact different places have different customs. So it's normal that some people won't have a bath everyday. Here it's very common that we have to take a shower everyday even if it's cold in winter.

bath

everyday

shower

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bandirae It's weird but i take a shower everyday before work and a hot bath when i get home to relax me. I do it because i love being clean. I wouldn't be as confident walking out my door without a shower. Although some people i've met need to be introduced to water,...

24 Jan 08

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creepy crawlies..

shymurl @shymurl (2765) • United States 24 Jan 08

Has anyone had an experience with creepy crawlies in bed? How did you react? Last night while sleeping I felt something, not sure what it was. I thought it was a hair at first, so I moved it with my hand and it was kind of...

creepy crawlies

sleep

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bandirae The worst thing for me was we lived in Texas, and they are notorious for scorpion's so sometimes we would have them crawl into our bed's, i never got bit but my dad did. He said it burned alot and had a big red spot for a good 6 months. oh and once i had a...

24 Jan 08

If you can get one DEAD person back on earth, who would it be?

I_LUV_U @I_LUV_U (2519) • India 23 Jan 08

Just imagine, you are blessed with a unique power of making one dead person re-appear on this planet. It can be anyone, just anybody you wish. It can be your mother, father, grandfather, first cousin's father-in-law, second...

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bandirae First i would want to make sure it's not going to turn into a Stephen King novel, then if not i would say my Grandpa. His death changed everyone and my dad, his son, was the one who found him. My grandpa was a good man with strong morals and stories taller...

23 Jan 08

six shots?

lilybug @lilybug (21107) • United States 23 Jan 08

I took my daughter today to get her one year shots. I know I am mean taking her to get shots on her birthday. They wanted to give her SIX shots! They settled for 3 and she has to go back at 15 months and get 3 more. Can you...

children

immunizations

shots

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bandirae Immunizations really sucked for me. But my daughter only had 4 at one time and that was awhile back but yeah, it seems so unfair and i felt so bad for her. Shots and kids just don't mix well.

23 Jan 08

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where do u live

princessa200145 @princessa200145 (616) • United States 23 Jan 08

i am curious there are alot of my lotters out here and i was curious where u all live i am looking cause i am really interested in finding out where u hail from and what do u do for a living do u like your jobs how much time do u...

curiousity friends possibilities

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bandirae I live in Oklahoma. I'm a 27 yr. old mother of two daughters, 9 and 6. I work at a gaming store and i love my job. I learn new things everyday. I am new to this site but since i found it it's really all i go to besides pogo.

23 Jan 08

Life has its ups and downs!?!?!?!?! Just needing to vent

pimpsterque999 @pimpsterque999 (227) • United States 23 Jan 08

Its 2008 life hasnt gotten any better. my phone is still off, im with the same guy, my son is still with my parents, i still have no friends, im broke as a joke, trying to find somewhere to live in another town while trying to...

life

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bandirae I probably don't have the right answers for you but i will tell you this. I, like you, have been in this situation and it sucks to the point where it couldn't possibly suck anymore, but it does. Where your nerves are on end and the next thing someone says to...

23 Jan 08

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do you have a talent in writing?

lonely_f16 @lonely_f16 (2146) • Philippines 23 Jan 08

I was hoping you could share some tips because I'm planning to write...thanks a lot :)

write

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bandirae I have been writing now for years and it's the one thing i have that no one can take from me. Just be you. Write down whatever comes to mind even if it sounds silly at the time. You can't ever go wrong with your originality. I get a lot of my ideas from my...

23 Jan 08

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has the world gone mad??

atramesil @atramesil (685) • United States 23 Jan 08

I don't know what is going on in my neck of the woods, but lately we seem to be having a rash of crazy things happening way to close to us for my taste. To list a few. Young man stops to help a lady push her car off the...

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bandirae I agree, we should all just hide because society seems to have taken a turn for the worst. Like the mother who's child died in the crib so she got scared, put it in a diaper box and hid it in the attic, then told cops her baby had been stolen. Or the guy who...

23 Jan 08

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Should I tell her that his boyfriend is cheating on her?

afternoontea @afternoontea (1005) • Indonesia 22 Jan 08

She is one of my bestfriend and I just cant stand to tell her that her boyfriend is cheating on her. I saw him flirting with other girl. He saw me too and look a litle bit surprised. He didn't say anything about the girl that hold...

cheating

unfaithful

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bandirae I have been in this situation before and sadly no one ever told me about it. I had to find out for myself and that was a huge stab in the heart. If you really care about your friend i would surely open my mouth. It's better to just be wrong and move on then be...

23 Jan 08

Are You Ready For Spring

TerryZ @TerryZ (22076) • United States 23 Jan 08

I am so ready for spring people! I usually dont start feeling like this till around march.LOL But this year Im feeling it early. I just cant wait for spring to arrive. Yes Im already thinking of my garden and what type of flowers...

springtime

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bandirae I love Spring and can't wait for it's arrival. I'm like a child waiting to open presents on Christmas morning. I love gardening and look forward to all new possibilities of new plants every year. I love color and warmth and the winter shares none of this with...

23 Jan 08

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