bluegem

@bluegem (174)

Dominican Republic • Age 61

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Help!!!!

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 1 May 11

I'm trying to get around on myLot but it seems so complicated. Can someone help me please???

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Contact admin

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 1 May 11

Is there a way to contact the myLot administration? I feel lost on this thing.

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Can a mylot account be deleted?

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 1 May 11

I'm trying to delete my account. Is it even possible????

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Editing posts

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 1 May 11

Can a discussion be edited after it is posted? Somebody, please help!

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Ladies, how do you cope with PMS?

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 22 Jun 07

Recently I've been noticing that about a week before my menses, I get terrible mood swings and a lethargic feeling. I am bothered by it as I find that I'm more easily irritated. This is a turn off for some people and makes the...

help

people

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1 person

What does life mean to you?

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 21 Jun 07

Many people have their own ways of describing life. I've heard metaphors like: 'life is a gamble', 'life is a journey' and 'life is a test'. What is your definition of life?

life

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1 person

Can a person have too many friends?

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 21 Jun 07

I am a relatively popular person as people are often attracted to my outgoing personality. I've always liked being this way until now. It's like I'm too much in demand and so keeping the connection with all my friends has become...

friend

relationship

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Do you think long distance relationships work?

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 21 Jun 07

Would you ever consider having a relationship with someone you met online? I've heard of these connections resulting in marriages but it sounded far-fetch to me. However, I recently met this very sweet guy online. I've totally...

love

relationship

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5 people

What is your love language?

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 10 Mar 07

People show love in different ways. It's very important to know your partners love language so that you can please him/her. Dr. Gary Chapman, the world reknown author, speaker and counsellor says that there are five main love...

love

relationship

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Is age just a number???

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 10 Mar 07

I had a friend who got married to a guy who was younger than her. Some people found it quite amusing, others looked down on her. Tell me, is age such a big deal? Ladies would you date someone who is the same age or younger?...

dating

relationship

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How do you deal with your fears?

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 10 Mar 07

By talking to people I realize that everyone has fears. Fears may be mild or very extreme (phobias). I am terribly afraid of death by accidents. Whenever I'm travelling especially for long journeys, I usually pray all the way...

fears

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An 8 y-o caought Stealing!

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 6 Mar 07

Recently I saw some clips of the punishment received by an 8 year old boy who was caught staeling bread in India. The poor boy was put to lie down in the road while someone drove a pick-up truck over his hand. It was so horrible....

boy

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6 people

Can depression be a short term thing?

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 6 Mar 07

I have a concern. We often say that we are in depression. But is being sad the same as being depressed? Or is it that depression is chronic 'sadness'? If you are sad for an entire day and no longer, is that depression? Let me hear...

depression

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2 people

Which traits irk you the most?

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 5 Mar 07

dishonesty, unreliableness, selfishness, disorderly conduct... These are some of the traits that drive me crazy. Are there any traits that you see in people that totally drive you up the wall? Let us hear about them.

character

people

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Have you ever felt disconnected from God? How do you cope?

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 5 Mar 07

There are times when I feel so out of touch with God. It's a feeling of emptiness, fear, lethargy. At this time I cant even get the strength to pray or read the Bible. I realize the situation but find that I cant help myself. Have...

god

worry

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5 people

Share your favourite inspirational quote!

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 5 Mar 07

Inspirational quotes do a really great job in encouraging, cheering, building enthusiasm and the list goes on. Do you have any quotation that is special to you and you want to share it with others? Here's one I really...

inspiration

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2 people

Can love really turn to hate?

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 4 Mar 07

There is the saying that, "there's a thin line between love and hate!" Is it possible for you to truly love someone and then turn around and hate them? Isn't love unconditional? If the one you love has caused you hurt, shouldnt...

hate

love

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2 people

What if someone you do not like was chasing after you, relentlessly?

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 28 Feb 07

What would you do if a guy kept chasing after u even though you told him to leave you alone? What if he kept on sending you gifts and love notes? How would you handle a situation like that? Would you send the gifts back or would...

gifts

love

love notes

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Do you feel bad when you make mistakes on a post?

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 28 Feb 07

I feel really bad when I look back at my posts and see misspellings or grammatical errors. For eg, my previous post had several errors because I was distracted a bit. Every time I look at it I feel disturbed. Does anyone else feel...

errors

post

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3 people

What if you were starnded on a desserted island?

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 27 Feb 07

If you found yourself stranded on a desert island, what three things would u want to have with you and why? I would want my Bible so I could read and be a little more hopeful, water so I wouldnt die from thirst and for bathing and...

island

stranded

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