bnsp09

@bnsp09 (258)

United States • Age 34

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Getting Married

maean_19 @maean_19 (4659) • Philippines 19 Mar 12

Hi Everyone! I am getting married this year and my fiance and I are in the planning and preparing stage. One thing that is bugging me is the wedding souvenirs or giveaways. While, I intend to giveaway a personalized local wine...

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wedding souvenirs

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bnsp09 I don't know if you've ever heard of the website weddingbees.com It is amazing!!! It's a forum all about weddings. You can find ideas on favors, decorations, invites, & so much more!!! I think that would be your best bet! I love it!

5 Apr 12

A memorable wedding you attended?

constabularyid @constabularyid (151) • China 3 Apr 12

I attended a memorable wedding when I was seven years old. It was my aunt's wedding. I played an important role in that wedding because I was a special flower boy. When my aunt's husband went our house, I was ordered to take the...

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bnsp09 The most memorable wedding I've gone to was my brother & sister-in-laws. They made the wedding ceremony personal & the reception so much fun! I was a bridesmaid & I had a blast at the wedding! I hope and pray that my wedding in March 2013 will be as memorable...

5 Apr 12

What type of hobbies you enjoy doing?

Blkqueen @Blkqueen (85) • United States 7 Feb 12

I was teaching myself how to make baby hats. It was fun I should get back doing it again. The reason I stop, I've been so busy at work, now that its not soo busy I have some time. What type of hobbies you enjoy doing? Now, I want...

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bnsp09 I love scrap booking, writing poems, volunteering for extreme makeover home edition & Habitat for humanity, going on the computer and most of all spending time with my kids & my fiance

8 Feb 12

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Do you think its true?

Jennifer @LovingMyBabies (85703) • Leesburg, Georgia 31 Jan 12

I was talking with someone I know about child stars. This person said all child stars will eventually turn into drug addicted trouble makers. I know there have been some of those but I dont think ALL children who become stars will...

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bnsp09 I think that with the correct teaching they will be just fine. I know that I am very strict with my kids but.... I don't ever have a complaint about them behaving badly except for family who spoil them rotten & then complain about their behavior. Well........

4 Feb 12

I Am Worried About Him...

Jennifer @LovingMyBabies (85703) • Leesburg, Georgia 31 Jan 12

My husband is having such a hard time with this whole comp stuff. He is stressing more than I am (if you can believe that). He is sitting outside just thinking about how he is going to work with his hurt hand if he doesn't get...

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bnsp09 That's so sad! I never want him to feel that way! I wish there was something we could do to help! We will get yall out of the house next week & maybe that will help! I'll be praying!

4 Feb 12

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Wedding preparation!!!

svjomboy @svjomboy (876) • Philippines 18 Jan 12

Hello friends, i have fiance for almost 2 years or more and now we are planning to get marry but i think its not the time to get a wedding gown its too early to get that, the wedding will 7 months from now but hes pretty excited...

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bnsp09 You should start looking as soon as possible for a dress. This way you can get a good deal on one. My wedding is about 14 months away & I've already found my dress!

28 Jan 12

Are you divorced ?

sijabatnaburjut @sijabatnaburjut (2172) • Indonesia 30 Nov 11

Have you ever been divorced? How do you react when your partner invites you to get a divorce. There are several factors a divorce. One of them is less intensity meeting or in other words seldom met with a partner. What are your...

divorce

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bnsp09 I was abused by my spouse, in all aspects. Then his drunk butt threw me & his two kids (under the age of 2) out at midnight, after I asked him to get up & help me clean up the house. I don't normally agree with divorce but if there is abuse or cheating...

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a cinderella wedding..

chicksdigscars @chicksdigscars (5483) 17 Nov 11

A Cinderella wedding? No.. I’m not joking. I just read something on the BBC News Website [for all you in the UK] and I cannot believe my eyes. A Cinderella themed wedding. And I do not mean from rags to riches, or a poor girl...

cinderella wedding

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bnsp09 I've been in a carriage like that but it was smaller & honestly it looked a lot more classy! I love the idea of it but I don't like that carriage or all the news & everything it brought. Normally in the US it would not have gotten all the attention it looks...

15 Jan 12

Wedding Checklist / Planner

chi2nasrin @chi2nasrin (1102) • Malaysia 12 Jan 12

It's 11 months more, and I have a feeling that I can't do anything without help in this short period of time... Do you have any checklist that I can use?

wedding checklist

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bnsp09 Hi, If you can afford a wedding planner or coordinator it's a great option. I am going to school for wedding planning so I am planning my own wedding and there are plenty of free checklists out there. Also If your in the US you can go to a public library &...

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Who do I love the best?

Bashful87 @Bashful87 (123) 26 Aug 11

One day, my boyfriend caught me chatting with my ex boyfriend and I am guilty because our conversation sounds like reminiscing our past love affair.I love my present boyfriend and don't want to loose him but he got mad at me and...

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bnsp09 I felt that way a couple times in my life! I was married but still in love with my high school sweet heart. It was tough and I had to put the feelings for my high school sweetheart behind me and move on. The second time I was second guessing if I should move...

27 Dec 11

Tattoos

C @ShyBear88 (42124) • United States 27 Dec 11

Do you have tattoos? If so how many do you have? Do they have any special meanings behind why you go that tattoo? If you dot have a tattoo would you get one and where would you put it? The friday before Christmas I went and got...

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bnsp09 I do have tattoos. I have two of them. I have one on my left shoulder blade that has a bird holding a ribbon and a heart. It used to have my ex husband's name on it but I got it covered up with camo. It now symbolizes my grandfather, my brother, and my man who...

27 Dec 11

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do you hate the fact that another year is almost over

hotsummer @hotsummer (10809) • Guam 26 Dec 11

i do hate that fact. because i have not been too happy with this year. and so hoping that next year would be not just different but totally different. but things won't change i know if i don't do something about my life. i need to...

new year

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bnsp09 I agree! There were some good times this year but my depression has gotten in the way of it! If I have an idea of how things will go in my head & they don't go that way it's like the whole time is ruined! I know it's me and I need to change that & I'm trying...

26 Dec 11

i wish to have more fun in life with out depending on how much money i have

hotsummer @hotsummer (10809) • Guam 26 Dec 11

i wonder if it is possible in my situation to end up happy sometimes even i don't have money to spend on, money to use to go somewhere or buy something that would make me happy. i would love to be happy in life but not limited in...

life

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bnsp09 I've always been told that if you are happy within yourself you can do anything & find a way to be happy with it but I have not found that yet. Everything I do cost money some how. Even if it's staying at home & watching t/v or using the computer those things...

26 Dec 11

do you know yourself more

hotsummer @hotsummer (10809) • Guam 26 Dec 11

i do believe that we sometimes discover something about ourselves that we didn't think we had it in our selves. oftentimes we know our selves full well till some accident or incident that would expose more of our selves . like...

character

self

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bnsp09 I found through my last marriage that I was a strong woman. A lot stronger then I gave myself credit for. I was being abused by my alcoholic ex husband for five years and when my son was six months old he threw me & my two kids out at midnight. I was in...

26 Dec 11

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Have you met someone through an online dating service?

MinGia @MinGia (30) • United States 26 Dec 11

Have you met someone through an online dating service and actually ended up in a relationship with them? If so, did you end up finding out the the person was not completely honest with you in the beginning? Did the relationship...

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bnsp09 I did meet someone on an online dating service. It's called Plenty Of Fish & last time I checked it's free. I did end up in a relationship with the person. He was completely honest with me. It's kind of hard to get to know someone online though. We were local...

26 Dec 11

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I would die to protect my child.

giftsandbagscom @giftsandbagscom (71701) • United States 20 Dec 11

I know it is true I love my brat that much. She is my life and I would leave this earth if it meant saving her. We all have that one person we feel like this about. I would love to know who this is for you. I love my man but I...

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bnsp09 I could not pick one person as I have two kids & my man. There's no way I could chose to save one over the other & I hope I never have to make that decision! Both my kids mean the world to me & so does Brad! I would die for any of them! They are my whole...

20 Dec 11

I love when he calls me that..

giftsandbagscom @giftsandbagscom (71701) • United States 20 Dec 11

Adrian calls me honey bunny and that makes me smile. I think it is so sweet to have a pet name. LOL I don't have one for him though. I should be taken over his knee right.. I think he sounds so nice when he says it. I love when he...

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bnsp09 You are def. not alone! Brad calls me babe and he only calls me Samantha if he's mad at me. I actually get mad at him if he calls me by my name b/c I hate it. I love when he calls me babe! I call him babe, sweetie, sweetheart & he does the same for me! I think...

20 Dec 11

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We all fall in love sometimes

giftsandbagscom @giftsandbagscom (71701) • United States 20 Dec 11

I am so glad we all get a chance to know what love feels like. I don't know about you but,I am so in love. I think it is what has saved me from depression. I may not sound right but this is the truth. Everyone falls in love and I...

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bnsp09 I completely agree! I'm so in love & I could not imagine one day without him & his love! He's in the Air force and just him going away for training is hard enough but to have to live without him all the time - I don't know how I'd do it! He's the love of my...

20 Dec 11

What would you want them to know..

giftsandbagscom @giftsandbagscom (71701) • United States 20 Dec 11

if you were breaking up today that is.. If I were breaking up with Adrian I would have a lot to say. I would want him to know how much he was loved. How he changed my life for the better. he would need to know I would never forget...

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bnsp09 I would have a lot to say. I would say what he did right that I loved what he did wrong that I did not like I'd say he was a great daddy & I hope he'd continue to be because this had nothing to do with the kids he took on to raise as his own. I'd tell...

20 Dec 11

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