catmei

@catmei (54)

China • Age 45

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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What are your thoughts on Obama saying "US is no longer a Christain nation"

ChristyJESUS @ChristyJESUS (14) • India 8 May 09

Please share your views/thoughts

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catmei i don't know the context of this sentence. does it concern about a religionary problem? if not, it maybe means that US is not as rich as used to, american should live an comparable economy life.

8 May 09

friends

maryann725 @maryann725 (44) • Philippines 7 May 09

What will you feel if you see your best friend talk to your best enemies? Is it normal to feel bad about it.

friends

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catmei i think everyone at this sight must feel uncomfortable. it's an uncontrolled and natural feeling. but she/he's not wrong. it's an enemy of you,not his. even it is his enemy, he may even talk to him as he may have a different way of treating enemies.

7 May 09

What would you do if you were in my shoe?

jcservant @jcservant (96) • Philippines 7 May 09

I've been married for yrs.now and until now i have no kids, the doctors said the problem is on me. If you were in my situations what would you feel? would you have any fear? would you still consider you and your partner as a...

married for years

no children

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catmei i think you must rely on the hospital, find how to get rid of this situation. i know now there are many diseases of infertility that can be cured. if you donot want to have an operation, you can also adopt a child. do not be afraid of the problems. there are...

7 May 09

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She is soon to be made redundant

maximax8 @maximax8 (31043) • United Kingdom 3 May 09

The recession in my home country is really severe and sadly many people are being made redundant. One of my friends will no longer have a job at the end of this month. She has been applying for many jobs without any luck. When she...

friend

life

redundant

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catmei sorry to hear that. maybe she could create a job herself. it's difficult to be employed but still there are many trades around us, like transfering restaurant.she has only to rent one.if she has no such amount of money, she can begin a lower-cost self-made...

4 May 09

Finally he is getting married

maximax8 @maximax8 (31043) • United Kingdom 3 May 09

I have known a guy since I was 11 years old. We stayed friends after leaving secondary school. He is 36 years old and he still lives with his parents. Last March he met a wonderful lady and they began dating. Now they are planning...

marriage

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catmei we live far away from our parents for our born city is just a little one and we got into university in a large city and have settled there.it's a culture for our youth to acquire an apartment if married.

4 May 09

How could we enjoy life if we are always working hard...

sdas86 @sdas86 (6076) • Malaysia 29 Apr 09

It is very hard for us to enjoy life especially we are working hard everyday with so much stress. I hope I can have a lot of money, enjoy my life to the fullest and live a happy life. How do you reduce your stress? How do you...

enjoy life

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catmei hello from china,sdas86 there is a funny chinese song singing that, i wanna wanna go to guilin, have time but no money, wanna wanna go to guilin, have money but no time. how to balance our leisure and work? usually i find when having worked for many days, i...

30 Apr 09

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What will you do...........I was really puzzled!

angel_rain @angel_rain (271) • Philippines 29 Apr 09

I went for a short vacation with friends at the beach.I'm not prepared for the escapade and adventure so I packed clothes that I think will do.Then came this dilemma,they wanted to take a dip during the night but what I got was my...

myself

travel

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catmei yeh, if i were in your case, i would not try. because it's quite abnormal in our country but it's not a thing that never happen.may one or two can be selected in a thousand women. but it may be different in your country.hope this not burden you.

30 Apr 09

Do you read the replies to your discussions?

froggieslover @froggieslover (3069) • United States 29 Apr 09

I have started a few discussions and I will read all of the responses to them mainly because when I have started a discussion, I am asking for help so I need to read them to hopefully get an answer but I have noticed that a few of...

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catmei well, froggieslover. i just came a week ago and only started 4 discussions, with one reaching the highest number of 9 reponses. and i have commented on all these responses in different words without failing in two line words, some are also detailed commented....

30 Apr 09

What to do in Shenzhen and Shanghai

powerofnetwork @powerofnetwork (46) • United States 27 Feb 09

I am thrilled to find this interests group and wondering if there is way to get more Chinese friends joining mylot. I am traveling back to China in June and will visit Shenzhen and Shanghai, any fun acitivity in these two...

mine

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catmei nanjing road, chenghuang temple, xintiandi are the most popular places for shopping and entertaining.

29 Apr 09

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Swine flu outbreak!!

agv0419 @agv0419 (3021) • Philippines 26 Apr 09

It is so alarming now that there is another outbreak which is swine flu. I heard it in the news yesterday that Mexico and some of parts of the US are affected with this disease. I'm not familiar with this disease from what I heard...

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catmei the imbalance ecosystem must be criticized for so commonly happened animal borned diseases. i think also the present breeding ways of animal should take some responsities. people are willing to breed the animals as fast growing, as inexpensive as possible. we...

28 Apr 09

Everybody complains that they don't have enough time in a day to complete their

Bala @balasri (26537) • India 21 Apr 09

daily work. If you get the power to add more time to a day how many more hours would you add to a day to make it sufficient for you?

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catmei i think 24 hours is enough.but i want to get power to make the night a little longer and the day a little short than present. and i think this will result in a plunge to the housing price and i can also have more sleep and more time to self arranged for now...

28 Apr 09

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being famous

sophie_dfuss @sophie_dfuss (2365) • Philippines 7 Mar 09

Would you like to be famous? If yes, whom do you like to be? If no, please give a reason.

famous

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catmei i've ever dreamed of being famous for a long time.but i should admit that i'm a person as common as an ant and it's still struggling for me to pay the loan of my house and to own a car. it's not a fame but a success that i want. it would not be a success...

28 Apr 09

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what topic

sophie_dfuss @sophie_dfuss (2365) • Philippines 5 Mar 09

If you are retired and want to write a book, what will be it be? a novel or self-help book?

books

writing a book

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catmei i like to write a novel represented some part of my life, young or mid-aged part. when time goes away, i know more and more deep about what i have done, why i haven't gotten things i want.there can be some vigor, some regret, some love that you want to speak...

27 Apr 09

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to go to the gym or not?

sophie_dfuss @sophie_dfuss (2365) • Philippines 7 Mar 09

I tried going to the gym but I got some a bruise on my thighs from using the gym equipments. As I have read lately, going to the gym is not advisable since it doesn't really tone up the muscles of your body. Do you agree to this?

exercises

gym

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catmei i've had some experiences in the gym and i found that it may do harm to our body.it is said that the exercise is not scientific compared to natural exercises. for example,when riding the bicycle,if you stop your riding,you press the red button,then a sudden...

27 Apr 09

What Is Your Idea

summerfire @summerfire (427) • United States 27 Mar 09

What is your idea of contributing to the world in a good way. What do you do to contribute?

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catmei i think there is a long way to go for the women to own their deserved rights. for such a trivivial person as me, maybe what i can do is just to help the ones suffered from the unfair. but now i haven't done a little for i'm still difficult to breed...

24 Apr 09