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dette47 @dette47 (19) 8 Feb 08

I had my son when was 37, that was by choice but I always wanted another child. It was 1998. In January 2001, my mother died and I was devastated. but carried on to support my father. July 2002 my father died. After this...

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Liasonfan I am so sorry that things were that ruff for you there and glad to hear things have improved. As far as having another baby, you need to follow your insticts and do what you feel you are able to do. No one can certainly tell you whether you can or should have...

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dette47 @dette47 (19) 8 Feb 08

I had my son when was 37, that was by choice but I always wanted another child. It was 1998. In January 2001, my mother died and I was devastated. but carried on to support my father. July 2002 my father died. After this...

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beinola I had my child when I was 36. I am now 47. Your story, in terms of stress, depression, and anxiety, parallels my own life: just change the circumstances. I am somewhat on my feet now and I would love to have another child. I have thought it through. If you are...

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dette47 @dette47 (19) 8 Feb 08

I had my son when was 37, that was by choice but I always wanted another child. It was 1998. In January 2001, my mother died and I was devastated. but carried on to support my father. July 2002 my father died. After this...

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autismmom2 I would say yes and no. Physically and mentally you may be ready for another baby, but are you ready for the possibility of a special needs child? After 30 the chance of having a baby with DS goes up a lot (I'm not sure what the numbers are, but they're high)....

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dette47 @dette47 (19) 8 Feb 08

I had my son when was 37, that was by choice but I always wanted another child. It was 1998. In January 2001, my mother died and I was devastated. but carried on to support my father. July 2002 my father died. After this...

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dlkuku This is certainly something that needs to be considered carefully. Maybe before you make a decision you should consult a doctor, there are a lot of different factors to consider physically at your age. Not that women in their 40's shouldn't have babies, if I...

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dette47 @dette47 (19) 8 Feb 08

I had my son when was 37, that was by choice but I always wanted another child. It was 1998. In January 2001, my mother died and I was devastated. but carried on to support my father. July 2002 my father died. After this...

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suspenseful It was not your fault that you had to wait this long. It was just circumstances and when you consider that years ago, even thirty was considered too old, you are lucky to live in this time when age does not matter, that you can care for a child even when you...

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dette47 @dette47 (19) 8 Feb 08

I had my son when was 37, that was by choice but I always wanted another child. It was 1998. In January 2001, my mother died and I was devastated. but carried on to support my father. July 2002 my father died. After this...

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gemini_rose You have had such a lot to contend with! To be honest with you in this day and age I think age is pretty irrelevant, and more and more people are opting to have children at a later stage in their lives, if this is what you really want go for it I say and do it...

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densky12 @densky12 (164) • France 18 Jan 08

Do you know what does your dream means? Maybe your dreams seem to show that you're a bit disturbed. You may have your problem trying to work out in your sleep. Overall, you are very content in your life. You tend to be a very...

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