docjudie

@docjudie (42)

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i dont know what to do?? pls help

acido_rockstar @acido_rockstar (95) • India 8 Feb 07

in my college theres a girl who is after my she said me that she loves me and i said" i cant play this game" since that day she calling me 45times a day, saying that im going to suicide and worse part is she already attempted...

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docjudie Go to the dean of students!! Explain your problem. He has the resources to get her help..will know what to do ans see this is taken care of.

9 Feb 07

If abortion isn't wrong, why do girls cry afterwards?

PlanetProzac @PlanetProzac (166) • United States 8 Jan 07

They feel bad, but society will make them accept it.

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docjudie Because it is a medical procedure,,it's scary and they are coming ut from under anesthisia...many people cry after anesthesia no matter what the procedure. They have mixed emotions or have been brainwashed that they are now "a horrid person"

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To sue or not to sue ...

momokoseiya @momokoseiya (453) • United States 8 Feb 07

My ex and I broke up over a year ago. He kicked me out of his home, so I could only get what I could carry. I have been paitent and he has sent me my stuff little by little. Most recently i have demanded the return of a few other...

breakup

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docjudie I do think you should sue..in small claims court you do not need an attorney and you can suee for up to $15000 in some places so this amount should be no problems.. The judge can also issue an order for you r things..A peace officer can go to the house with...

9 Feb 07

How do you decide?

carissa765 @carissa765 (1097) • United States 9 Feb 07

How do you decide between two people? I have been with my current for one and a half years, and my ex boyfriend I have known for 4... I love my current, but if my ex said go I would be there in a heartbeat.. I don't want to hurt...

torn between two lovers

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docjudie Ex..es are ex.. es for a reason you two tried it and it didn't work. Why do you think it would be different this time? Have things changed so much?.. have you ever heard of the book "it's called a break up cause it is broken?" You might want to read it...

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paedophiles..what the heck do we do with the b 235154121jhgfs!!

yanjiaren @yanjiaren (9031) 9 Feb 07

I am a very forgivng person by nature..but boy if i got my hands on a chbild molestor i just don't know what i would quite do with him..my sisters were both molested by one of my older cousins when they were kids..and even when he...

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docjudie Pedohilia is not known to respond well to any known kind of treatment..They usually have numerous victimd before they are caught and almost always contine to re-offend... For this reason I feel anyone convicted of molesting more than one child should be...

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Should homosexuality be allowed in the society?

zhar00001 @zhar00001 (12) • United States 8 Feb 07

From my own point of view, homosexuality is just a wicked preverted thing that a man could think of. Some people may say, "well, i was born that way"... I think that's not right. Since myself I am christian, and it does say in the...

gay

homosexuality

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docjudie A. this is a free country ..not a country of any one religion b. why do you care what other people do in thier bedrooms? c. what's business is it of yours what other adults do? d. doesn't the bible say "judge not lest you be judged?" E, when you get...

9 Feb 07

Middle of the night calling

thunderofsins @thunderofsins (738) • United States 9 Feb 07

What would you do if someone was calling your spouse in the middle of the night? My husband's cousin's girlfriend keeps calling my husband in the middle of the night! I've asked her to stop, he's asked her to stop and even her...

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docjudie I am tempted to say turm the ringer off..If you think someone might call with an emeregency though, not the best idea. Most phone company can block a specific number if you pay a small monthly fee..every body else would still be able to call you..Just not...

9 Feb 07

She wants another baby, he does not

TheKristoffersens @TheKristoffersens (200) • Denmark 9 Feb 07

My friend wants another baby, but her husband thinks it is too early, and other things need to be settled first. She does not take any contraceptive at the moment, so it could happen any time. Do you think she has the right to do...

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docjudie Your friend is playing with fire..One child is work..two children require alot of work and cooperation between the parents..If this new baby arrives before the second parent is ready he could wind up resenting her...and the baby.. I haveseen people divorce...

9 Feb 07

Bruxism

charlesming @charlesming (1865) • Singapore 8 Feb 07

Anyone has bruxism(grinding of teeth at night)? I do grind my teeth for many years now. Seems like there is nothing much we can do about it, or is there?

grinding

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docjudie Go to the libabary and look at AARP magazine in the back is a clear plastic device that is sold..You put it in your mouth at night and it prevents tooth grinding. It is not expensive and you rteeth are worth it. good luck

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HELP!!! What can I do to get rid of the cravings for pop?

carmella @carmella (496) • United States 9 Feb 07

I am horribly addicted to pop, namely pepsi, and I don't know how to stop drinking it. I'm over weight to start with and I know that pop does not help, not to mention it really is not good for me. Has anyone had this problem...

health

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docjudie Well I have good news and bad..You are addicted to oth the sugar and caffiene...but it iwll only take about 4 days for the constant craving to stopl.. Plus you will be saving thousands of calories and will lose weight. Get sugar free soda ..you'll get...

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what would it take for you to have an affair?

ESKARENA1 @ESKARENA1 (18260) 9 Feb 07

Im speaking theoretically here, but what would it take for you to have an affair?

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docjudie I could only see it happening if my partner had already had an affair and I already knew I would be leaving. Even then I think I would probably wait till I was actually gone so I could hold my head up..unlikely but knows I just might give into revenge.

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I have seen a few discussions on polyarmory. . .

chromecowgirl37 @chromecowgirl37 (283) • United States 9 Feb 07

and here is my situation. I am happily married to a wonderful man, he is the only person I have ever been with. I am curious about women and would like to experiment, and he isn't exactly opposed to this so that is not the issue I...

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docjudie I don't take a moral stand about polygamy. But I will tell you this. It is Always best not to bring people you know well into the scene. What I mean is when the parties know each other feelings get involved and someone falls for someone else..This usually...

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What would you do if you caught your significant other cheating?

missinghim @missinghim (1339) • United States 9 Feb 07

This past weekend my best friend and I were out (about 15 miles from where we live) when we spotted her bf's truck at a restaurant. Because he was supposed to be taking care of his "sick" mother that lived in Maryland (he was in...

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docjudie I would not confront them..and go right home and have the locks changed!

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A friend cheating on another friend.Would you say something or shut up??

LightninStrike @LightninStrike (5915) • Saint Vincent And The Grenadines 9 Feb 07

If two of your friends were together and you knew that one is cheating on the other...would you tell this second one about it?. Do you think it's your duty as a friend to tell the cheated on one about it or precisely to keep...

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docjudie There's nothing worse than being the last to know..Tell your friend who is cheating that they have to fess up..or you will tell..Give them a short amount of time to tell.. If you do not tell and the one who is being cheating on ever finds out you knew and...

9 Feb 07

My mom needs to call the cops ASAP

momokoseiya @momokoseiya (453) • United States 9 Feb 07

My dad has been giving my mother issues since day one! He got arrested for stealing checks and forgery because he was using stolen checks to pay the rent. My mom got up the money with help, and she was able to fix that mess. She...

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docjudie It would be best if you Mom went to alanon or nar anon..for family members of those who have an addiction. they offer practical support to stop "enabling" the person to say in thier addiction. If she won't go you should go yourself...she may then follow...

9 Feb 07

Is it okay to walk down the aisle alone?

rosedust82 @rosedust82 (2066) • Philippines 8 Feb 07

I have a friend who's getting married in a couple of months and she's in a dilemma right now... She's not sure if she should walk the aisle alone or ask someone to walk her down. Both of her parents are deceased and she doesn't...

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docjudie Any male that she is close to can walk her down the aisle. This could be a male friend, a cousin or favorite uncle. One reason to have someone walk her is taht traditionally she would have a dance with them during the reception. The is no real rule...

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