dtroas

@dtroas (479)

United States • Age 50

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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What To Do?

jahernandezrivas @jahernandezrivas (11288) • United States 11 Jul 11

I have been so stressed lately and so has my husband this is awful I was off of work for almost a month and he told me to go back so I went back for one day and now he said he was going to work 2 jobs until we got another car and...

stress

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dtroas Sorry to hear about your situation. I know it must be hard wanting to do something. Work being so far away from home. It would be great if something was closer. It just really seems hard for everyone these days. I wish you the best. My lot is really the only...

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chatting with a married woman !!!

badwes @badwes (406) • United States 27 Jun 11

just to let ya all know that i always say that i'm an open minded guy , respect friendship, love life and try to take it easy without to much complications ! . i started to meet talk to this woman , she is my age , met her on...

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dtroas You know the answer to this. If they are those feelings there, then something could possible happen. I see no reason for name calling on this by others. We can not help our feelings. But you can stop it from something else happening. I would not meet with her....

27 Jun 11

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choose your weapon

Near2011 @Near2011 (155) • United States 26 Jun 11

What is your preferred weapon to hunt with, and why?

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dtroas I prefer to hunt with a bow!! It is very challenging. May I ask what is yours?

26 Jun 11

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Why do people lie?

whispers168 @whispers168 (768) • United States 24 Jun 11

I wonder why people lie? The truth comes out in the long run.Lies hurt people. Lies change the way you feel about others.Its always better to tell the truth.One lie leads to more lies trying to cover up the truth.Do you lie or try...

truth

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dtroas I ask myself that same question every day. I think some people just lie cause they believe that it is the truth if that makes sense. Yes you are very correct lies are hurtful. Being honest is the best way to go. But there is so many people out there that dose...

24 Jun 11

Verbal abuse

SViswan @SViswan (12051) • India 24 Jun 11

How does one handle verbal abuse? It's not happened to me often but whenever I see it is about to start or has started, I walk away. If I get really angry, I have no control over what I do or say and things can really blow up....

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dtroas This is a very serious situation that I think a lot of people over look. I for one have had my fair share of verbal abuse in my life time. And it is a very hurtful thing to have to deal with. And if there is kids involved it is hard on the kids. I myself have...

24 Jun 11

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My friend is starving her baby!

neelygal @neelygal (1022) • Bahamas 23 Jun 08

I have a friend that is literally starving her 6 month old because he is a fat baby.I am getting so mad with her.I have never seen a baby this fat before but all of the pediatricians say hes healthy and nothing is wrong with him.I...

babies

friend

starving infants

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dtroas It seems as if your frind my need some help, if the doctors are saying that all is ok with the child (Baby). This is something that people are close to her my need to help and talk to her about it. Do some research there is parents out there that do this with...

24 Jun 08

Win at home to win the world

vsraovsr @vsraovsr (734) • India 11 Mar 08

My mom always used to tell me to win the hearts of people whom you know well to win the world, that is to be good to the world outside. When you are not good to your family members and maintain a good relationship with them, there...

kind

sucessful

win

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dtroas I try to treat people the way that I want to be treated. Why be mean or rude to people, I just feel that that is wrong. Do right now. It will pay off in the long run.

11 Mar 08

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completed 50 posts

TAPARIA @TAPARIA (314) • India 11 Mar 08

Yepee... I have completed 50 posts on mylot. This is my 50th post and I am very happy. It took me one week to complete 50 posts. How much time did you take to complete 50 posts?

50 post

completing 50 posts

mylot

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dtroas I try to do 50 post a day it does not always work that way. Just depends on what I have going on.

11 Mar 08

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do you know the inventor of mylot ??

unuzzz @unuzzz (1273) • Indonesia 11 Mar 08

i wonder.. who is the inventor of mylot ?? i got a little curious since yesterday i read the newspaper and i read an article about most richest people in the world one of them is the founder of facebook i cannot believe what...

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dtroas I am not saying much. If I can earn a few cent I will take it But I like the site more for the discussions. And all the mylotters.

11 Mar 08

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What would you do if you find out that your husband has a child?

idaantipolo @idaantipolo (472) • Philippines 11 Mar 08

with another woman, and you found about this with the woman he has relation with? And what if that, that woman after finding about you as his wife and scandalizes you? Would you still accept your husband and forgive him? What if...

relationship

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dtroas Are you talking a child before we get together? Or that he is having an or had an affair? I am not sure what I would do if it was out of an affair, but I do know that I could not be mean to a child over it. They are innocent. If it was out of an affair...

11 Mar 08

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do you allow your kids to dress how they choose

rohini33 @rohini33 (55) 11 Mar 08

my twelve year old son thinks he's old enough to dress himself and generally has his own opinion on what length his hair should be and everything else to do with his body ,he feels i should have no say but sometimes i don't like...

dress code for kids

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dtroas With him being 12 years old. I do agree who should have some say as to what he want to wear, and how he wants his hair, but with you being a parent if there is something that he is wearing that is not suitable for him, then maybe you should stand up and...

11 Mar 08

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dont take the child

punlonnjack @punlonnjack (1308) • United States 5 Mar 08

i was wondering if any of you out there that have kids.have you ever been threatened by someone that they would take your child?this makes me so mad to hear someone say someone should call the state and take that child.i over...

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dtroas It would not pay anyone to say they were going to take my children. Or threaten that they are going to, My children are my life. There would be No reason for anyone to want to take them. I am a good mom. And my children live a good life.

11 Mar 08

How do you deal with conflicting information regarding your child's development?

Ayannali @Ayannali (63) • United States 8 Mar 08

My 26 month old son was referred to a service for developmentaly slow children. She said that in her opinion he wasn't saying enough words clearly and she couldn't understand him. When the people came to evaluate him at my...

child development

child services

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dtroas Maybe he is just having trouble with talking at this time. I would not let it get to me. He is just a few months over 2 years old. I care for 2 boys that are now 7 and if they would of been worked with more as toddlers I do believe they would talk better....

11 Mar 08

Who is the most special person in your life and why?

2btrueinu @2btrueinu (700) • Philippines 11 Mar 08

All of us has an special person in our life. Who they are? And what make them special? The most special person in my life is my husband. It make him special because I feel that he loves me, support me in my ideas, comfort me when...

special person in mylife

wife

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dtroas That would be my children. I love my husband and he loves me But there is NO one in this world more inportant to me then my children.

11 Mar 08

do u spending ur time in computer all day all night????

alex143 @alex143 (69) • Philippines 10 Mar 08

sometimes im spending my time all day all night,,,sometimes not coz i have to study our lesson that possibly disccuss tomorrow,,,, take care always

computer

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dtroas There is no way I could stay on a computer all night I do spend time day time on the computer but not all day. If I would do that I would NEVER get anything done.

11 Mar 08