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durgapal @durgapal (6) 24 May 08

I am youngest of two brothers and three sisters. Though we belong to a beautiful and picturesque town Almora(uttarakhand in India) my job keeps me in a small town in Madhya Pradesh (India). My old mother who is 95 years old stays...

caring for old parents

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KURIAN although this is difficult caring your mother will be a great thing you are doing. Your brother and sister can help you financially if they are not able to take care personally. God will bless your effort.if you can find some domestic help when you are going...

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durgapal @durgapal (6) 24 May 08

I am youngest of two brothers and three sisters. Though we belong to a beautiful and picturesque town Almora(uttarakhand in India) my job keeps me in a small town in Madhya Pradesh (India). My old mother who is 95 years old stays...

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webeishere I too am a caregiver for my elderly (83) father. He is not in bad health but needs to be watched after as he does fall. He asked to move in with us. The nice thing is if I ever get to where I can't care for him I have an older brother whom would take dad in...

26 May 08

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durgapal @durgapal (6) 24 May 08

I am youngest of two brothers and three sisters. Though we belong to a beautiful and picturesque town Almora(uttarakhand in India) my job keeps me in a small town in Madhya Pradesh (India). My old mother who is 95 years old stays...

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vaishalik I am proud of you my friend as a Indian, as you are doing such a great work. You must be thankful to the God for he has given you this chanse to serve your mother. But I know it is very difficult some times. Try to find someone who can care your mother in your...

26 May 08

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durgapal @durgapal (6) 24 May 08

I am youngest of two brothers and three sisters. Though we belong to a beautiful and picturesque town Almora(uttarakhand in India) my job keeps me in a small town in Madhya Pradesh (India). My old mother who is 95 years old stays...

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nupats It is very sad...with chnging times nobody wants to take any responsibility the stongest bond betwen parent and child is also overlooked by the gen next...i know ur situation very well in fact no one can know better than me...i know there may be no wayout for...

26 May 08

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durgapal @durgapal (6) 24 May 08

I am youngest of two brothers and three sisters. Though we belong to a beautiful and picturesque town Almora(uttarakhand in India) my job keeps me in a small town in Madhya Pradesh (India). My old mother who is 95 years old stays...

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Patsie Hatley is Deceased You have two brothers and three sisters and yet they let you take on the burden of caring for your mom all by yourselves. tell them that she is their mother too and you have to have a break in this, they should have to step in and take over,it is their...

26 May 08

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durgapal @durgapal (6) 24 May 08

I am youngest of two brothers and three sisters. Though we belong to a beautiful and picturesque town Almora(uttarakhand in India) my job keeps me in a small town in Madhya Pradesh (India). My old mother who is 95 years old stays...

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thebeaddoodler My heart goes out to you and your wife and your mother. I know it's hard at that age to be in a strange place. It's also hard for a child to care for a parent so disabled. I'm sorry you and your wife are left to care for her alone while your brother and...

26 May 08

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durgapal @durgapal (6) 24 May 08

I am youngest of two brothers and three sisters. Though we belong to a beautiful and picturesque town Almora(uttarakhand in India) my job keeps me in a small town in Madhya Pradesh (India). My old mother who is 95 years old stays...

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lieanat Hi, the son. I wasn't aware of his job requirement. But I think we can request for transfer right? If still can't work, maybe you can bring more laughter to your grandmum and cheer her up.

26 May 08

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durgapal @durgapal (6) 24 May 08

I am youngest of two brothers and three sisters. Though we belong to a beautiful and picturesque town Almora(uttarakhand in India) my job keeps me in a small town in Madhya Pradesh (India). My old mother who is 95 years old stays...

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nupats hi, that was a grt suggestion...but unfortuanately wont work for him since he is in a Govt job and cannot quit befor 2 years..this person is my DAD..

26 May 08

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durgapal @durgapal (6) 24 May 08

I am youngest of two brothers and three sisters. Though we belong to a beautiful and picturesque town Almora(uttarakhand in India) my job keeps me in a small town in Madhya Pradesh (India). My old mother who is 95 years old stays...

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lieanat Hi, you and your wife are doing great job in caring for your mum. I salute both of you. I think you brother and sister are just too selfish on their own need without appreciating your mum's love and sacrificial hearts for them. Have you try to find job at...

26 May 08

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durgapal @durgapal (6) 24 May 08

I am youngest of two brothers and three sisters. Though we belong to a beautiful and picturesque town Almora(uttarakhand in India) my job keeps me in a small town in Madhya Pradesh (India). My old mother who is 95 years old stays...

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MinamiKesh i know it's really hARD in your case to take all the responsibility in taking care of your mother as her child....and you felt unfair that it's you who carry all his needs now.. ....i think JUSt don't be worry at all....co'z all you have done has great deeds...

26 May 08

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durgapal @durgapal (6) 24 May 08

I am youngest of two brothers and three sisters. Though we belong to a beautiful and picturesque town Almora(uttarakhand in India) my job keeps me in a small town in Madhya Pradesh (India). My old mother who is 95 years old stays...

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grammasnook We can all make the assumption that they (brother and sister) are being selfish, maybe they are not capable of dealing with the mental anguish that goes along with caring for an elderly parent. Not wanting to recent the mother or have her feel like a burden....

26 May 08

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durgapal @durgapal (6) 24 May 08

I am youngest of two brothers and three sisters. Though we belong to a beautiful and picturesque town Almora(uttarakhand in India) my job keeps me in a small town in Madhya Pradesh (India). My old mother who is 95 years old stays...

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eihdra First of all, welcome to Mylot!! I admire you and your wife for taking care of your mother..I know it's hard work but that you must be doing it because you love you mother so much..As for you brother and sister, dont' mind them, they just don't want this big...

26 May 08

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