edmslove

@edmslove (11)

Canada • Age 50

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Finding the right person after a divorce

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 13 Aug 08

The big question is how to get out of this rut created by post-divorce trauma. Taking professional help is one solution. A psychiatrist or counsellor is a specially trained individual who can delve deep into your hidden emotions...

dating sites

relationship

support groups

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edmslove Post-divorce trauma is putting it lightly, but yes, you are right. Getting on with your life usually means finding that special someone that offers you what you never had with your ex. I personally can relate. I had a gruesome husband that never cared about me...

27 Aug 08

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My husband won't accept that it's over....

trish331 @trish331 (33) • United States 25 Aug 08

After 9 years of marriage and two children, our marriage is over. I have come to realize that he has mentally and emotionally bullied me for years and I let him. Now I find it difficult to even look at him. This is the man that I...

divorce

family

love

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edmslove OMG.. I don't know where you are or where you're from but this is practically the same thing I am going through right now. trish331 you have no idea what I have been through these last 11 months. I married a man about 10 years ago, but we were actually...

27 Aug 08

How long of a time out do you give your child?

faln_angel1205 @faln_angel1205 (1192) • United States 4 Aug 08

For those of you who give time outs as form of punishment, how long is the time out for? Is it different for each of your children if you have more than one (they say to do a certain amount of time for each yr of the childs age)...

discipline

effectiveness

time outs

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edmslove My timeouts depend on what they have said or done to diserve the punishment. It can sometimes be 5 minutes or 10 minutes. The longest I have had any one of my two boys on a time out was for 20 minutes and it was because they were fighting with eachother. They...

27 Aug 08

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Your User Name on myLot

razor123 @razor123 (979) • India 26 Aug 08

Hey everyone from where did u get your myLot user name? Is it just some random letter or numbers u typed in or does your user name resemble something actually like your real name or someone else's, or some character, or some kinda...

username

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edmslove My username has a deeper meaning. It is my first and last initials, my fiancee's fist and last initials and the word love...that is how I got to edmslove...

26 Aug 08

Ibuprofen for the Pediatric Age Group

pauloalbino @pauloalbino (34) • Philippines 26 Aug 08

Yes indeed we use ibuprofen for pediatric age group, but it seems that its beginning to become a drug of abuse in certain countries. depending on this medication not only for pain and fever, but also for stress.. WHAT! In both...

ibuprofen

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edmslove My youngest child was so sick during his baby and toddler years that a fever was a very common thing in him. We used acetaminophen (tylenol) in his earlier times but were forced to change to ibuprofen (advil) because his body had become so immune to the...

26 Aug 08

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What will inter-racial marriages do for society

suspenseful @suspenseful (40192) • Canada 25 Aug 08

I am in favor of marrying who you are in love with and I am attracted to guys who have dark brown hair and brown eyes and I married one. I have never fallen in love with a black guy, I have been friends with people who have been...

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edmslove I am white, a city girl who's parents immigrated to North America in the 70's. I was born and raised in the country I live. I have fallen in love with a black man who is a wonderful human being. He is of my race because he is catholic like I am, but his colour...

26 Aug 08

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Do you have real friends, and what qualities a good friend must have?

1987daydreamer @1987daydreamer (60) • China 2 Aug 08

I had a lot of friends, but friendship is difficult to maintain. Without frequent communications, many of them are becoming more and more alienate to me. But there are ones still keep in touch with me and are willing to offering...

friend

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edmslove A good friend does not judge you. They understand your situation and support you no matter what. They may want to give you advice, but they will never judge what you have done. I personally have a few good friends. They don't judge me and are there for me when...

26 Aug 08

Not Divorced Yet But Starting Another Relationship

jennysp8 @jennysp8 (855) • United States 25 Aug 08

It sounds terrible I know...Background: I have been married for almost 3 years...we have had nothing but fights for the last 2 years - he always would tell me how he hates my kids because they "take too much of my time" (they...

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edmslove Here is my background. I was "married" with my soon to be ex-husband for almost 13 years. I can tell you that the last 4 years of my marriage were nothing but fights and misery. In August of last year we stopped sleeping together because there was really no...

26 Aug 08

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Losing weight - Diets

Vissie @Vissie (3) • South Africa 24 Aug 08

Is dieting healthy for your body? My opinion is that it's not healthy.

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edmslove Dieting the right way can change your life. I went from weighing 265 lbs. to weighing 165 lbs. I did it the healthy way and it took me 2 years to do it in total. It isn't easy, it is just about controlling what you eat and how you eat. You can still enjoy...

25 Aug 08

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