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growingupthree @growingupthree (54) • United States 24 Sep 09

My husband walked out on me and our three daughters almost two years ago. He has filed for divorce and has a fiance. They have a son that she was pregnant with before he ever told me he wanted a divorce. Of course his reasons for...

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growingupthree I believe you are right and it is time to move on. This is not the way I wanted things to turn out to be but it is not something that I can change. The only thing left to do now is to deal with it and move on. Thanks for responding.

26 Sep 09

growingupthree @growingupthree (54) • United States 24 Sep 09

My husband walked out on me and our three daughters almost two years ago. He has filed for divorce and has a fiance. They have a son that she was pregnant with before he ever told me he wanted a divorce. Of course his reasons for...

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growingupthree LOL My baby decided I was done before I was. He has yet to meet my dad so we will have to wait and see if he passes the Dad test.

26 Sep 09

growingupthree @growingupthree (54) • United States 24 Sep 09

My husband walked out on me and our three daughters almost two years ago. He has filed for divorce and has a fiance. They have a son that she was pregnant with before he ever told me he wanted a divorce. Of course his reasons for...

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growingupthree It has been a long two years and we need something positive in our life. So far he has been a wonderful person to me and my children. If my brothers can't find anything wrong with him then he can't be too bad. lol Now my dads on the other hand.

26 Sep 09

growingupthree @growingupthree (54) • United States 24 Sep 09

My husband walked out on me and our three daughters almost two years ago. He has filed for divorce and has a fiance. They have a son that she was pregnant with before he ever told me he wanted a divorce. Of course his reasons for...

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growingupthree Thanks for responding. You are right he broke the bonds of our marriage and he certainly didn't wait for the papers.

26 Sep 09

growingupthree @growingupthree (54) • United States 24 Sep 09

My husband walked out on me and our three daughters almost two years ago. He has filed for divorce and has a fiance. They have a son that she was pregnant with before he ever told me he wanted a divorce. Of course his reasons for...

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growingupthree I do not despise him. I actually feel sorry for him. He has walked away from three beautiful wonderful children. He has not contacted us in almost a year and then it was to ask for money. Believe me he had no problem telling me that he wanted a divorce and...

26 Sep 09

growingupthree @growingupthree (54) • United States 24 Sep 09

My husband walked out on me and our three daughters almost two years ago. He has filed for divorce and has a fiance. They have a son that she was pregnant with before he ever told me he wanted a divorce. Of course his reasons for...

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growingupthree Yes, he is having to give support for the kids. It is very hard trying to be both Mom and Dad. He isn't wanting to replace their father just spend time with them. It is nice having someone to at least just talk to me at the end of the day.

25 Sep 09

growingupthree @growingupthree (54) • United States 24 Sep 09

My husband walked out on me and our three daughters almost two years ago. He has filed for divorce and has a fiance. They have a son that she was pregnant with before he ever told me he wanted a divorce. Of course his reasons for...

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growingupthree You are right about thinking of my children first. If it wasn't for my children pushing me to attend an event, I wouldn't have even met this man. My two older girls are the ones that gave him our number after I refused. They even begged and pleaded on his...

25 Sep 09

growingupthree @growingupthree (54) • United States 24 Sep 09

My husband walked out on me and our three daughters almost two years ago. He has filed for divorce and has a fiance. They have a son that she was pregnant with before he ever told me he wanted a divorce. Of course his reasons for...

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growingupthree Thank you for responding. You have giving a different light to the discussion. I understand the ones that think it is too soon and the ones that think I need closure as they are looking out for my well being. I do not understand the ones that just want me to...

25 Sep 09

growingupthree @growingupthree (54) • United States 24 Sep 09

My husband walked out on me and our three daughters almost two years ago. He has filed for divorce and has a fiance. They have a son that she was pregnant with before he ever told me he wanted a divorce. Of course his reasons for...

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growingupthree All we are waiting on is his signature. I can understand the ones that are concerned about my emotional well being but not the ones that want me to wait because it doesn't look right without that piece of paper. I am doing the best that I can to take care...

25 Sep 09

growingupthree @growingupthree (54) • United States 24 Sep 09

My husband walked out on me and our three daughters almost two years ago. He has filed for divorce and has a fiance. They have a son that she was pregnant with before he ever told me he wanted a divorce. Of course his reasons for...

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growingupthree Blessings are always a good thing and very welcome. I hope you find much happiness in your future as well.

25 Sep 09

growingupthree @growingupthree (54) • United States 24 Sep 09

My husband walked out on me and our three daughters almost two years ago. He has filed for divorce and has a fiance. They have a son that she was pregnant with before he ever told me he wanted a divorce. Of course his reasons for...

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growingupthree I love music of all types so I had to go and find this song. You are talking about the one by Diana Ross? Thanks for sharing it. I actually liked it a lot and it sure fits what I'm feeling. No they wouldn't listen at all and would cuss me out if I kept butting...

25 Sep 09

growingupthree @growingupthree (54) • United States 24 Sep 09

My husband walked out on me and our three daughters almost two years ago. He has filed for divorce and has a fiance. They have a son that she was pregnant with before he ever told me he wanted a divorce. Of course his reasons for...

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growingupthree You are right and if the divorce was already final then they would probably be looking for something else to fuss about. Thank you for sharing.

25 Sep 09

DCLehnsherr @DCLehnsherr (1037) 23 Sep 09

Hey mylotters, Wow that is the first time I have had a title too long to fit in the box. It was meant to read: Do you prefer to think of yourself as different from, or the same as everyone else? I am curious about...

do you liek being called normal

humanity

normality

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growingupthree Thank you. I had actually been toying with the idea of starting another one under my own domain with the title Growing Up Three. Maybe I will do it after all. I kinda missed writing it.

25 Sep 09

growingupthree @growingupthree (54) • United States 24 Sep 09

My husband walked out on me and our three daughters almost two years ago. He has filed for divorce and has a fiance. They have a son that she was pregnant with before he ever told me he wanted a divorce. Of course his reasons for...

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growingupthree I hope I have and if for some reason this does not work out then I will pick myself up and start again. I do not think its fair to my children to make them wait either. They deserve to have someone in their life to be a father to them and bring a little...

25 Sep 09

growingupthree @growingupthree (54) • United States 24 Sep 09

My husband walked out on me and our three daughters almost two years ago. He has filed for divorce and has a fiance. They have a son that she was pregnant with before he ever told me he wanted a divorce. Of course his reasons for...

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growingupthree You are right about not doing anything to hurt my children. If it was about my kids then I could understand them wanting me to wait. Being a small town, they want me to do what "looks" right.

25 Sep 09

growingupthree @growingupthree (54) • United States 24 Sep 09

My husband walked out on me and our three daughters almost two years ago. He has filed for divorce and has a fiance. They have a son that she was pregnant with before he ever told me he wanted a divorce. Of course his reasons for...

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growingupthree I think you are right about my happiness being important for my girls. I believe that my sadness has been having an impact on them. I think it will be easier to heal the hurt if we move on rather than dwelling on it for another year and then waiting a...

25 Sep 09

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growingupthree @growingupthree (54) • United States 24 Sep 09

My husband walked out on me and our three daughters almost two years ago. He has filed for divorce and has a fiance. They have a son that she was pregnant with before he ever told me he wanted a divorce. Of course his reasons for...

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growingupthree My guy is handling things pretty well and even met my in-laws. If my mother and father-in-law can take to him and see how well he treats us then maybe the rest will come around in time. At least be able to put their opinions to the side and just enjoy being...

25 Sep 09

growingupthree @growingupthree (54) • United States 24 Sep 09

My husband walked out on me and our three daughters almost two years ago. He has filed for divorce and has a fiance. They have a son that she was pregnant with before he ever told me he wanted a divorce. Of course his reasons for...

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growingupthree Well the good thing about all this is that he is military and can be punished by them if I choose. Even serving jail time. He has already filed the papers for irreconcilable differences. He just did not sign the papers before he left. I hope that he does not...

25 Sep 09

growingupthree @growingupthree (54) • United States 24 Sep 09

My husband walked out on me and our three daughters almost two years ago. He has filed for divorce and has a fiance. They have a son that she was pregnant with before he ever told me he wanted a divorce. Of course his reasons for...

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growingupthree Thank you for responding. I just had to ask some people who do not know me. I feel silly for even asking the question now. But with so many people telling me that I am in the wrong and that now I am just as guilty as he is. sighh!

25 Sep 09

growingupthree @growingupthree (54) • United States 24 Sep 09

My husband walked out on me and our three daughters almost two years ago. He has filed for divorce and has a fiance. They have a son that she was pregnant with before he ever told me he wanted a divorce. Of course his reasons for...

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growingupthree Some of them do think it is just too soon. Maybe they'll come around pretty soon. I am sure that he will do the same thing to her. For his children's sake, I hope he can get himself together one day.

25 Sep 09

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