One Of My Crushes Shown With My Dad - This is Ken who taught at my college (temporary position) during my freshman year. He had never been my instructor, but I'd gone to him for some advice. He was married at the time, so there was no romance. Several years later, he and his wife divorced, and, a few months after that, I became the first women he took on a date since his divorce. We went swimming, prepared and ate a cook-out meal at his place, and went on a drive so he could show me where he'd recently started working. Although we were very close friends and were attracted to each other, we chose to think of each other as sister and brother. He passed away in the fall of 1992 and is still very much missed. He's mentioned several times in the new book I'm now in the process of writing.