jeshai

@jeshai (5)

Philippines • Age 35

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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How to get rid of persistent suitor?

gatlopena @gatlopena (13) • Philippines 24 Mar 10

If you have a very persistent suitor whom you've turned down several times since your early adolescence and yet won't give up on you, what is the best thing to do in order to get rid of him?

persistent suitor

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jeshai If i were in this case, I would go straight to the point. I'll tell him frankly that he is truly not my type and that I am focusing myself in studies, family and friends and that I'm not open to any mutual relationships and Done!

26 Mar 10

Sibbling rivalry, a childhood issue or a lifelong issue?

gatlopena @gatlopena (13) • Philippines 24 Mar 10

I have cousins who only had 2 children in their respective families. In most cases, the sibblings behave like cats and dogs. Obviously, there is a big problem regarding sibbling rivalry. It's similar to the biblical story of Cain...

sibbling rivalry

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jeshai A difference in personality types is one of the main reason for sibling rivalry. Any family that has more than one child is going to experience sibling rivalry at some point. It is an inevitable fact that children who are in the same family are going to have...

26 Mar 10

Should adolescents do everything even if it's bad for the sake of belongingness?

gatlopena @gatlopena (13) • Philippines 23 Mar 10

A young adolescent ones told me about her problem on peer acceptance. She said all that she wanted is to be accepted by her friends. She does not want to be different from them. Her question is that, should she do everything even...

peer acceptance

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jeshai Knowing that the kind of activity you are into is bad, ofcourse you would refrain from doing this just for the sake of belongingness. There are a lot of peers who can be a better influence to you. Do not let them pollute your personality just because you realy...

25 Mar 10

Is arranged marriage fair?

gatlopena @gatlopena (13) • Philippines 24 Mar 10

Is it fair if our parents will be the ones to choose the person whom we should marry?

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jeshai To allow arranged marriages leads to unacceptable pressure on those involved. They are reliant on the parents who wish them to take part in arranged marriages for their futures as well as their current welfare. This practice is an insult to the very nature of...

25 Mar 10