myLot / @kinzzz / Likes

kinjal @kinzzz (23) • Rajkot, India 1 Sep 16

On the completion of 4yrs of relationship, my boyfriend has a perception about me that 1. I always keep on blaming him for every little thing. 2. I dont trust him. 3. I doubt him. 4. I dont give him space. 5. He will be...

1 response

mor The situation is complicated here. I see that the conversations between you two are like fighting. He doesn't want to talk with you in first place to avoid the unpleasant experience. I understand you both, try to be nice to each other, at least when you have a...

5 Sep 16

•

1 person

kinjal @kinzzz (23) • Rajkot, India 1 Sep 16

So, when people still treat me the way they treated me before I got help – do I work twice as hard to change their perceptions or stop caring about their opinion entirely?

1 response •

1 person

Toni I think you should stop caring and just show them you've changed. Sometimes people will still doubt you not unless they actually see proof of the change. Worrying about chaining their thoughts about you would only drag you down.

1 Sep 16

•

1 person

kinjal @kinzzz (23) • Rajkot, India 23 Aug 16

i am in a situation. yest was my bf's birthday. usually i dont touch his mbl. but while seeing something i got to see his whatsapp. i saw a chat box with a friend of his from school time. he had been chatting with her since few...

2 responses •

1 person

snehakeshri I think you should do the same as he is doing if he has feelings for you he will understand without saying anything.you just need to ignore him for sometime.

23 Aug 16

•

1 person

kinjal @kinzzz (23) • Rajkot, India 23 Aug 16

i am in a situation. yest was my bf's birthday. usually i dont touch his mbl. but while seeing something i got to see his whatsapp. i saw a chat box with a friend of his from school time. he had been chatting with her since few...

2 responses •

1 person

Laurel (L_B) You have already told him how you feel and he has ignored your feelings and continued on with that he is doing. I am not sure confronting him and telling him again will make any difference. I agree that she does not have to know everything you are doing. You...

23 Aug 16

•

1 person

kinjal @kinzzz (23) • Rajkot, India 18 Aug 16

My boyfriend has a way of saying everything. Whenever we are having a conversation, he responds with such an impact as if he wants to make a point. Ya, many of the times he is right with his thoughts and beliefs. He is a great...

5 responses •

1 person

Be At least, you have all the time to know him well so that when you make your final decision whether to be with him for the rest of your life, or not, you are well informed and you will not blame anybody or anything. There are really people like your boyfriend,...

18 Aug 16

•

1 person

kinjal @kinzzz (23) • Rajkot, India 18 Aug 16

My boyfriend has a way of saying everything. Whenever we are having a conversation, he responds with such an impact as if he wants to make a point. Ya, many of the times he is right with his thoughts and beliefs. He is a great...

5 responses •

1 person

Manisha It's not easy for a lot of people to let go of their individual beliefs and open their mind to other possibilities...this is a drawback...but its the way they are...some people work purely on logic. If there is no proof, they refuse to consider it. It is the...

18 Aug 16

•

1 person

kinjal @kinzzz (23) • Rajkot, India 18 Aug 16

My boyfriend has a way of saying everything. Whenever we are having a conversation, he responds with such an impact as if he wants to make a point. Ya, many of the times he is right with his thoughts and beliefs. He is a great...

5 responses •

1 person

Laurel (L_B) You were not wrong to speak out. He is just upset because he is not use to people standing up to him. He will get over it but in the mean time just allow him time to think about what you said.

18 Aug 16

•

1 person

kinjal @kinzzz (23) • Rajkot, India 18 Aug 16

My boyfriend has a way of saying everything. Whenever we are having a conversation, he responds with such an impact as if he wants to make a point. Ya, many of the times he is right with his thoughts and beliefs. He is a great...

5 responses •

1 person

Sky I think it'll take some time for him to get the idea.

18 Aug 16

•

2 people

kinjal @kinzzz (23) • Rajkot, India 16 Aug 16

I am dating a married man since 4yrs. Initially everything was fine. Then the blame game began. Endless fights. Less time availability. No meeting for days. He started to thinking that coming one step down in relationship is...

6 responses •

4 people

Dee @sugartoes she can get out of that mess by doing it. It's a tough choice but you need to weigh in the situation.

18 Aug 16

•

1 person

kinjal @kinzzz (23) • Rajkot, India 16 Aug 16

I am dating a married man since 4yrs. Initially everything was fine. Then the blame game began. Endless fights. Less time availability. No meeting for days. He started to thinking that coming one step down in relationship is...

6 responses •

4 people

Manisha @kinzzz oh..thats...complicated. I still don't see why you should lower your expectations. Don't you think you have a right to have the kind of life that makes you happy?

18 Aug 16

•

1 person

kinjal @kinzzz (23) • Rajkot, India 16 Aug 16

I am dating a married man since 4yrs. Initially everything was fine. Then the blame game began. Endless fights. Less time availability. No meeting for days. He started to thinking that coming one step down in relationship is...

6 responses •

4 people

Linda Mansfield (Snowdrop) @kinzzz Anything worth having is worth waiting for

17 Aug 16

•

1 person

kinjal @kinzzz (23) • Rajkot, India 16 Aug 16

I am dating a married man since 4yrs. Initially everything was fine. Then the blame game began. Endless fights. Less time availability. No meeting for days. He started to thinking that coming one step down in relationship is...

6 responses •

4 people

waflay You have call yourself for a personal meeting and examine if you are really in a healthy relationship.Sometimes fighting in a relationship is bound to happen but if it goes to an extent that no one time two partners are able to sort out their differences in a...

17 Aug 16

•

1 person

kinjal's Likes