maphelepest

@maphelepest (12)

South Africa • Age 50

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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How much?

p1kef1sh @p1kef1sh (45681) 1 Sep 10

Being British and a citizen of the European Community I enjoy some of the best employment perks in the world. I get at least 8 public holidays and have a 5 week paid holiday entitlement from my employer. My previous employer was...

holidays

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maphelepest 6 weeks !!! I don't believe it. South Africa, at least beats you guys in terms of public holidays which is 11 days per year and 15 working days which is equivalent to 3 weeks-any other day off is unpaid holiday unless its those statutory ones like maternity,...

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Diaspora?

TheRealDawn @dawnald (85137) • Shingle Springs, California 1 Sep 10

An open source alternative to Facebook: http://www.seoconsult.co.uk/SEO-News/facebook/diaspora-eyes-an-alternative-to-facebook.html Does it sound like a great idea? Or something that people could really mess up? Or do you...

new social network

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maphelepest Facebook is easy to use and every friend I know is using it. If its that good or better, why not try it

1 Sep 10

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Which websites have paid you recently?

xorticanz @xorticanz (377) • India 1 Sep 10

I say two of them recently. Clicksia and Donkey mails paid me. I like these two sites now and I am concentrating on these two now. Of course mylot is my favorite place. I like to know how is neobux and onbux sites. I am reaching...

money

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maphelepest You must be a millionaire by now, so many sites have paid you!!!!PHEW, I just started two days ago and I will be visiting the sites that you mentioned. Thanks dude

1 Sep 10

What is the worst place for a first date?

olisaur @olisaur (1922) • United States 31 Aug 10

Where do think is the worst place to go for a first date with the person you like? In my opinion, going to see a movie is probabaly the worst. It's a common place to go for a date, but when you watch a movie you can't really...

first date

love

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maphelepest You got it right, movies are a definite no no for a first date. Remember the first date is a fact finding mission and you would want him/her to talk more rather than to be staring at a movie and besides you need to know if will this first date progress to a...

1 Sep 10

Stigmatisation of Mental health in Africa

skmak110 @skmak110 (79) 1 Sep 10

Having experienced the negativity belief of my people towards the people with Mental illness, having worked in a rehabilitation organisation with Mental Health clients, I think I should share this write-up. Negative views such as...

stimatisation of mental health

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maphelepest They say little knowledge kills and I believe stigmas formed especially around diseases are very detrimental for they kill emotionally. Instead of forming stigmas we should be find ways of dealing with the problems

1 Sep 10

Do you ask sorry to your friend if you have hurt him or her?

xorticanz @xorticanz (377) • India 1 Sep 10

I feel sorry immediately if i have hurt someone. I rarely do this as i control my anger a lot. One important thing in friendship is an attitude to ask sorry if mistake is at your side surely. Its the ego which we have to kill. If...

sorry

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maphelepest Of course, apologizing, being forgiven and giving forgiveness are the best feelings one can ever experience. Apologizing to me is a sign that comes with humility and saying to the next person we all not perfect and we make mistakes. Being forgiven show how...

1 Sep 10

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Are you still friends with your Ex?

ktmatunog @ktmatunog (912) • Philippines 1 Sep 10

we are. my friends say that you should not be friends anymore. because of the reasons that your heart might hurt more and to make you heart completely healed. but it depends on your current boy/girlfriend, it depends on you...

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maphelepest In life no one is in a business of making enemies especially with those you loved and shared special times with. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being friends with your ex and in fact that might be your next stepping stone into being a better you in...

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What if the woman you loved for a long time refuses your marriage proposal?

len1415 @len1415 (195) • Philippines 1 Sep 10

Alright then, you proposed to the woman you've loved for a long time and she said No, how would you react? You will feel depressed and embarrassed with all your presumptions that she didn't love you at all after all the things...

marriage proposal

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maphelepest As you say the relationship has been going on for a long time and now it needs to progress to another level and the next best thing is marriage. If she is not ready she must say so. Refusing without giving reasons will not put your relationship you had and the...

1 Sep 10

Do you want to win the lottery?

abitosunshine @abitosunshine (765) • United States 1 Sep 10

In the past, in answer to my own question I would have said, "Sure, but it won't happen because I don't waste my hard earned money on gambling on the lottery." Well, things have a way of changing, so again I think, never say...

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maphelepest I did play the lottery when it was first introduced here in South Africa but realized that it was nothing more than gambling. Being a mother of two very young boys, one would like to set values systems that will benefit them when they are grown. You would want...

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fat bomb

allen0187 @allen0187 (58559) • Philippines 30 Aug 10

here is the link for the fat bomb. ***this is not a promo link*** http://uk.news.yahoo.com/5/20100824/...t-870a197.html this is burgher king' pizza burger. besides the beef and a 9.5-inch sesame bun, the pizza burger is...

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maphelepest The unfortunate part is when we eat, calories is not the only issue we need to worry about, in fact if you eat in correct proportions calories should be the last thing to worry about. I totally agree with you pizza burgers are so so delicious that I'm drooling...

31 Aug 10

I cant stand my husbands family.

Lifez2short @Lifez2short (4962) • United States 21 Oct 07

I know that sounds harsh but I really cant. They treat my kids like outsiders because they don't like me. I have never meet another group of people who do not know how to let something go. My husband and I always fight about it...

dont

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husband

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maphelepest Your husband's family is YOUR HUSBAND'S FAMILY and that's that!!! In South African black communities we have what we call ILOBOLA, which is the money that the groom pays for bride which is virtually used for the wedding and is mainly there to build relations...

31 Aug 10