How would you react if your partner tells you he fantasized about another woman?

@gabesmom (1246)
United States
April 17, 2007 8:13am CST
My husband admitted that he used to fantasize about this woman he met almost a year ago at work. I asked him why it didn't materialize and he said because he didn't pursue her. He had moved to another job and there is very little chance that they would accidentally bump into each other. What would your reaction be? How are you going to deal with this situation?
1 response
• United States
17 Apr 07
As long as it never actually happens, this is totally fine. I do have to admit though that I would always wonder if something really did happen. That is just me and my experiences with men, so not really anything to go by. I fantasize too, but mine are abstract and not about anyone in particular these days. lol.
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@gabesmom (1246)
• United States
18 Apr 07
I do fantasize about other men as well. Who doesn't? I agree that as long as it didn't become a reality, then it's nothing to worry about. But if there's a desire to make it a reality, then it becomes a different story.