Cheating

@pinks0da (328)
Philippines
April 17, 2007 10:02pm CST
Well, it just came to my mind. I noticed nowadays that people are making cheating a norm which should not be the case. When I say cheating, I am referring to romantic relationships. I am trying to understand why and what made other people hurt their loved ones by cheating. To be more specific, married men/women engaging into another relationships secretly or worst publicly! Why? This has been my question over and over and I could not find a sensible and reasonable answer within me. Perhaps posting this would help me understand them. I am a moralistic person so I find this really disgusting. Thoughts there anyone?
4 responses
jimhuo2008
@jimhuo2008 (572)
• China
20 Apr 07
Yes, maybe a lot of us have be cheated or cheat other, but sometimes I don’t think cheating is a always a bad thing for who be cheated, we cheating just for not let other feel uncomforable or sad, for example, ever, I lost my job , it is a very serious thing to family, my wife and child will be very sad fot this, so I give them a lia, and quick find another job, them I tell them the truth. But sometimes liar is for do bad thing,for money, foe other benefit of themselves. That is bad. Generally speaking, we should sort them into two parts, Am I right?
pinks0da
@pinks0da (328)
• Philippines
20 Apr 07
What you did was a white lie, you did it out of love. You didn't want them to worry and feel sad. I admire you for that. The other side of cheating, womanizing, or women cheating on their husbands etc, that's bad :)
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lifetogether
@lifetogether (94)
• Malaysia
18 Apr 07
cheating is not good.but for sometimes maybe its needed.
ladymoonstone143
@ladymoonstone143 (1507)
• United States
18 Apr 07
More or less in a relationship, if a partner cheats on the other...it is a sign of not being contented with the relationship. Because if you are contented, you will never seek out another. I think that before you cheat on someone, break the relationship first because there is always karma coming.
hollie1974
@hollie1974 (119)
• United States
18 Apr 07
I am not sure either. Its something that I have never been able to understand. If you are not happy with a person, let them go before moving on to someone else. I think there are just some people out there that are so afraid of being alone that they have to collect people like some collect stamps. I think they really need to put themselves in the other persons place and think about how they would feel.