Have you ever begging someone to love you?

Australia
April 18, 2007 12:51am CST
What do you think if man/woman begging someone to love her/him? Love can make people loose his/her mind, even they know that that man didn't love her/him. but they still begging to givem their love to him/her. What do you think?
6 responses
@tombiz (2036)
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
Begging anybody for love or attention will never work and will eventually lead to more problems and emotional instability. I have been a victim of this once and I could say that it's a very counter-productive thing to do. It will only hurt the one begging for love. Instead of getting love, you will beget hate for yourself. Why we should beg from somebody anyway? If nobody could ever love us, then we have to love ourselves. If nobody cared for us, then fine. Just never beg. Show love and affection but never beg -- the person we are begging will only go away probably because of suffocation. There are more people out there who are more worthy of our time, affection and love. Just wait for it.
• Australia
18 Apr 07
Love will find the way, just don't ask people to love you if they don't want
@marababe (2503)
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
I agree. Love will definitely come to you in due time. Remember, patience is a virtue. We wouldn't get anything from begging someone to love us. Save some pride we might need it someday. :)
@marababe (2503)
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
I begged someone not to love me but to NOT leave me. I don't know what got into me and now I regret it. I realized he's not worth it and it's good that he didn't stay. Yes, love can really make people lose their mind, all we need is control.
• Australia
18 Apr 07
You can get a better man girls.Don't worry, love will find you
@smkwan2007 (1036)
• Hong Kong
18 Apr 07
First of all, I'd never begged for love. Because I am a shy person. Once in a new environment, I would be quite silent. Its usually people approach to make friend with me, then I respond then my social circle becomes larger. My first dating with my girl friend, now my wife, was also a dating arranged by her but not me. So , if I really fond of being intimate with someone, it would all be in my heart only, I wouldn't to beg for her love.
• Australia
18 Apr 07
You are a lucky man. Thank you for you.don't be so shy you can make a lot of friends with make a conversation.
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
hi little angel! i think some people when they are in love they can do everything or worst when obsessed they're out of themselves and even beg for their love ones to love them. Personally, if someone doesn't love me then i will just think it's over maybe i deserve someone better and someone better deserves me. I'll just pray or divert my attention to others.
• Australia
18 Apr 07
We can fall in love with someone but don't expected him to love you, just let him love me just because he love me not because i'm begging him.Thank you
@rohan116 (33)
• India
18 Apr 07
yes i begged.... and then i learnt few things about love. u can love anyone but u cant get love by asking, demanding or begging. and by doing that u will lose ur good friend also. love shud be develop naturally, not forcibly. its also possible that once love develops for few moments and then situations and circumstances vanish it... in that case we became more demanding and keep on asking about love again and again... and we became irritating and boring for our friend (whom we love) and it creates many fights, differences and lost of friendship too.
• Australia
18 Apr 07
I agree with you, love should grow naturally. Thank you
• Malaysia
18 Apr 07
people shouldnt need to beg for love. i never begged anyone to love me.if they love me, then good.. but if they dont then i guess its their loss and another person's gain. love is free will.. we cannot force people to love us when they dont.
• Australia
18 Apr 07
That's right. but sometime someone who fall in love can't think as clearly as we do. Thank you.