I need advice

@mesmes (21)
Indonesia
April 18, 2007 7:39am CST
When we little boy, we always play,eat,sleep together.We always gave support when we were in trouble.I just understand now, why after we all get married that all change...Now we just thinking our family(wife,child,home,money,etc)it's make me bored.So how we can back like few years ago..
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@Nardz13 (5059)
• New Zealand
19 Apr 07
Hi mesmes. We do all grow up. I think we become more aware of dangers, fears and consequences then we start to decide on what activities and fun are apropriate as we get older. We end up turning our play and fun times into something competitive and serious. We forget about the fun we use to know. We have other worries on our minds. I think we dont give ourselves enough time to play and enjoy without worrying about what we have next on our list of chores. If we have families, I think the only thing to do, is to find fun activitys to cater for all and really enjoy that time with them. Maybe Im raving, maybe not lol ...
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
i was in the same situation as you were. but i always think that its my choice, no one was forcing me when i got married so i should accept what life will take me to. I will just pray that someday our family will overcome the problem we had right now.
@lilaclady (28238)
• Australia
18 Apr 07
I guess that life, we all grow but I think you should still be a little silly at times, stop taking life so seriously, start joking around more and play little pranks to make the others in your family laugh, treat life as a bit of a joke have fun because we are only here for a short time you might as well be happy...