Please help me...

Australia
April 18, 2007 10:26am CST
I want to break up with my boy friend but he never let me go. I just can't stand with him anymore, he too childish. And he never let me have my own life, i can't hanging out with my friend or my family without him. I'm so depress about this. Can you help me out of my problem with him?
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@Shaun72 (15968)
• Palatka, Florida
19 Apr 07
Just tell him the truth. That you don't want him as a boyfriend anymore and you don't feel the same why he does.
• Australia
19 Apr 07
I will, Now i'm try to hiding from him.Thank you shaun
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
Hey girl! I think it's your fault because you let him control you before you have come to realize that there's something wrong with his attitude. Having a very possessive boyfriend is very hard.I've been through with that kind of guy and we always fight because I don't let him control my life until I kicked him out of my life.Girl, it's time for you to get him out of your life or you wanted to be a saint just to be with him.Sometimes, love is not a basis in a relationship there should be a give and take thing.Your relationship is not growing.There's someone better than him.
• Australia
19 Apr 07
I realized that my relationship wasn't growing up, and i tried to get out of that.Thank you for your advice
• United States
18 Apr 07
i do not know how to tell you this but if you really want to get out of the relationship then just pack up and leave yes i know it is easier said than done believe me i know i have been in your shoes it took me for ever to leave my husband and it took for ever for my boy friend to realise that he is with someone that he loves or he thinks he does he has done a lot of things that i will not get into and you know what if you want to go and hang out with your friends then you do so and thier is nothing that he can do to you because thier is no ring on your finger so thier for he does not own you if someone calls and askes for you to go out with them then you just go out with them and do not look back.
• Australia
19 Apr 07
Thank you for your advice, i'm still thinking what i'm gonna say to him. wish me luck
@all4ucnc (861)
• United States
18 Apr 07
Some guys are too controlling because they are still immature, he needs to grow up a little more and develope some trust in others before he can have a real relationship.... So tell him . . . "I need my space right now, I've discovered that I'm really not ready to be in any kind of relationship, and that's not fair to you. I'm sorry but I need to end this. We can be friends if you like, but I just can't give you anything more than that at this time." Good Luck!
• Australia
19 Apr 07
Thank you, i've already told him that i need a space he looks understand for 2 days.then he start doing that again.
• Malaysia
18 Apr 07
is that means your boyfriend are controlling you so much??he did not even let you have your own privacy with your friends and family??just break up with him.or else if he still wanna stick to you then tell him to follow your way.or else the relationship is over between you and him.tell him like that.if he still wanna be childish then it isn't worth it to stay any longer with him.when you break up with him do not answer his calls or meet him.let him feel regret of treating you that way.that is the only way to make him change to respect your own privacy
• Australia
19 Apr 07
thank you for your advice, i wish i could meet him, he always came to my house whenever he's like. 4.00 am or 11.00 pm. Wish me luck will you