Successful marrige

I feel that a before marriage the relaitonship is more of a made to requirements type of realtionship where in your partner tries to behave his best but things change soon after marriage and ones illusion is broken. So thinking that love marriages are more successful than arranged ones do not carry much weight.

I think a love marriage is more successful than an arranged one. I would not want an arraned marriage. I love having the option to choose who I want to marry and be with the rest of my life.

Love marriage or arranged marriage the success depends on how you handle your partner.Often it is different in being a batchlor or a spincter and a married person

The success or failure of a marriage depends on the people involved. Regardless wither arranged or chosen it takes the dedication of both parties to make it work. Even under the best of circumstance marriage is never easy. It takes work. While one would think love would be a requirement it is often attraction, not love, that makes us get together. We learn of each other only after marriage. An arranged marriage, often because of the downgraded expectation, can be more successful. But this only happens if both are dedicated to make it work and they become friends first and then lovers.

Although i would prefer a love marriage, i don't think it will last LONG. If it is arranged, you will start to fall in love with your partner and the relationship will get stronger and more difficult to break.

I dont think that either love marriages or arranged marriages are ore successful. They are both good in their own right. Marriages really depend upon two people. The couple needs to work things out rather than wondering which of the two is better...It is individuals that makes marriages work, and not love or arranged marriages!!