why do u people do this?

Oh my gosh, I totally agree with you. I have known of a great number of women who have put up with a "man" who have physically or mentally abused them, but yet they turn down the "good guy". I don't understand it, I can't imagine settling for a man who would abuse me. I do understand the those type of men can be very manipulative, but I also feel that after sometime, A woman would eventually wake up and realize that the man is not going to change. I wish you the best of luck!

You're right, thank God I chose a guy who loves me and treats me like a princess, he's not ugly but he is no bodybuilder badboy either. I guess some people just want a good looking person, not realising they can be violent or even shallow.

yeah u r right

People do this, in my opinion, because they feel so lousy about themselves that they try and make up for it by judging others. I try not to let things like this bother me, but sometimes it does get frustrating..for instance, I have been overweight my entire life and for years, worried that I would only meet losers and jerks, but I finally met a great guy...he loves me for me..and sees who I really am...if I lose weight, it is for health and for me, not because he gets too concerned about it..Great topic !

this is a superficial side of our society.ppl judge ppl by their appearances in many situations.the best thing you can do is dont give a damn to that instead of care or angry about it.but notice that not all women are shallow and like bad guys.you are just unlucky to meet some.

Yes nowadays we are looked at physically. Before we even speak. I myself look upon everyone with love and I'm alway wanting to find out what that person is all about. I feel that everyone should do that. What's good looks without a kind heart ?

i also wonder why some women are up for looks. i know friends who ended up with good looking men. but at times text me crying about the abuses they get from their handsome partners. they end up regretting their choices. i don't mean that all handsome men are bad and rude. but there are some who are. it's just sad that the people i know ended up with the wrong guys. i am one of those like them before. but now, i am lucky ending up with a handsome charming man and really nice, too.

Sad to say, it usually boils down to animal attraction. I've seen so many people go for the "better looking" person, even though they know, in their heart of hearts that they're making the wrong choice. It's a painful lesson to learn, that's for sure. What puzzles me is when people make that same mistake repeatedly only to wake up one day and wonder why they're alone.