After arguing w/ your partner, who says sorry first?

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@vamisola (905)
Australia
April 18, 2007 9:57pm CST
it's normal to argue with your husband sometimes. It is part of the relationship. You'll grow from it. It's healthy for both of you because you'll learn from it. Whether you started it or not. At the end of the day, you find yourself talking again not arguing. You can't be mean to the person you love. Now, the question is...who says sorry first? is it you or him/her?
5 responses
• Philippines
19 Apr 07
My husban say sorry first then after he says sorry... I tell him that im sorry too. after that were okey again. But mind you he only say his sorry because he needs something from me. get it.
@vamisola (905)
• Australia
19 Apr 07
ok :)
• Philippines
19 Apr 07
it depends on who's fault it is. if it is my fault, i'd really say sorry to him but if its his fault, you'll never expect me to say sorry to him even if he says that i'm the one at fault.
@vamisola (905)
• Australia
19 Apr 07
wooh...scarry.. ;p
• Philippines
19 Apr 07
it depends on who really started the fight or who really made a mistake... if i'm the one, then why not. there's no harm admitting that you did something wrong and saying sorry... acceptance of one's flaws makes the relationship stronger and more stable...
@vamisola (905)
• Australia
19 Apr 07
ur right girl!
@mflower2053 (3223)
• United States
19 Apr 07
I think its about the same. I'm the one that always starts the arguements so I'm told anyway. I want to make an arugement over everything he says.
@vamisola (905)
• Australia
19 Apr 07
hahah..i can relay on that.
@DIOSAMER (23)
• India
19 Apr 07
Its always the girl who says sorry..never the guy...cuz its below a guys dignity to say sorry...
@vamisola (905)
• Australia
19 Apr 07
nope..my husband says sorry most of the time :)