how to determine real love and infatuation?

@fredgame (1261)
China
April 19, 2007 5:19am CST
This is a worldwide problem and i as a single at the moment woould like to avoid it as much as possible. Many people go into a relationship and i bet you, you envy some but after some few months or years they become like "man and serpent". some say that isn't real love, it's just infatuation. I would like to hear your opinions about actual love and infatuation. how can one discend whether a relationship is "real or infatuation"?
2 responses
• Philippines
19 Apr 07
Im thinking the same question too. I think when its true love, you can feel that your willing to give up everything for him or her, that you are willing to do things and sacrifice for him or her but if it just an infatuation, you will easily give up when he or she doesnt like you or its only one or two things that you really like from him or her.
@fredgame (1261)
• China
20 Apr 07
wonderful responses from you lols, i thinks you have great ideas. thanks for sharing with me.
• Philippines
19 Apr 07
Love may refer that you can accept the whole identity of a person, willing to sacrifice, willing to be with the rest of your life, willing to share your happines, share your thoughts and everything that you can name... Infatuation may refer that there are some things that you cannot accept it may be a past relationship, mistakes, way of life and sometimes even the family of that person... Love is a magical feeling that you cannot expressed with your own words.