who would you choose??

Have you ever heard of the last temptation? That's when we're about to get married someone will come out to be having all the qualities we are looking for in a guy then would put us in dilemma. That guy would even put us in a situation where we really don't want to put ourselves into, choosing between the two. But if I have to choose, I'll choose my fiance. At least I know my guy pretty much than the other who might be too good to be true. And will end up to be not really what he's trying to show he is .

i know alot of people have one las fling before they get married but she is having a relationship so therefore maybe she isnt ready for marriage now. it sounds more then just cold feet. if her partner finds out about this other guy the wedding maybe off anyways. if he finds out about it after the marriage that could be even worse. she needs to be honest with herself and figure out what to do. marriage is a lifetime or at least it should be. if she isnt ready to say ok you are the one for till i die then she needs to speak up. she needs to think if she is willing to throw everything away for someone else as well. how would she feel if the shoe was on the other foot with her soon to be hubby? what about this other guy does he know? i mean if he doesnt and he finds out which he will then what? no one can answer what she should do or what she should feel that is all her. all you can do is be there for her. dont push her either way let her make that choice. if it was me and i was thinking all of this then i would have to tell soon to be hubby that i dont think i am ready and that i need more time.