Is there anybody who can love me even when i have a child??

@jesseca (209)
Philippines
April 19, 2007 3:46pm CST
im just wondering.. when you have a child, is this a big thing to a guy?? Coz, i dont think that they are someone who can really love me for what my status now.. and if there was, Can he love my son too as if they are his?? please tell me the truth!!
4 responses
• Canada
20 Apr 07
you'd better believe there's a guy like that out there!
@edujccz (929)
• Philippines
20 Apr 07
Stay preety as you are with your smile, most of all ask it to God ,he will be there someday. I said , ask it, for there is a saying, if it not with God it will not prosper. Yes, you can always find one but better if the one is for good and not just for fling. i wish your happiness.
• United States
19 Apr 07
Well I can't speak for a man but it seems like it can bother some, but not all. More than likely if the man wasn't looking for something longterm he wouldn't date a woman with a child because he has it set in his mind that they want you to be the child's dad. On the other hand, if you meet a guy thats great and really wants to be with you longterm he probably will not mind at all if you had a child, and end up loving him as if it were his own! Really depends on the man, you will just have to get to know them before you find out. GOod luck!
• United States
19 Apr 07
Jesseca, you have a child you don't have the plague - YES, a man can love you even if you have a child!!! I know many people who have remarried with children and were very happy in fact the man they married loved her child as their own and lived happily ever after... So, don't think you have a handical because you have a child - it is you they will fall in love with and therefore evrything you have will also be theirs-