what part does your job play in your everyday life?

China
April 19, 2007 8:41pm CST
i am a freshman at work.everyday i am thinking how to do my job well and the work that should be done. i take job as my whole life. however when out of work,i could find nothing to do. perhaps i put too much attention and energy to my job and i don't have my own life besides work. now i feel a lot of pressure at work, i want to get over it.but i can't as i don't have another style of life besides work. so what role does work play in your life? how much energy do you put in your job?please give me some advice,i need to know how to treat my job and life.
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• China
22 Apr 07
Hi, elliete. I am so glad to know you. I think so many freshmen who have just gratuated from school have the same experience with you. For the new environment, the new start, you can not get used to at once. So put all your attention to work. Just make more friends and take more activities. This is my advise. It only represents my personal idea. Your dear friend, Drag (At least hope to be)
• China
23 Apr 07
glad to know you too. and thank you for your advice. may i ask you a question? may i have your name? how do you know my mylot? best regards
@yanstill (1490)
• China
20 Apr 07
then i think you must be a workaholic.your work comes first.and i have several suggestions below,hope that helped. 1.set limits on your work hours,when it's time to relax,do things that are not related to work. 2.be sensitive to the needs of your friends and family.take time to be with them,it's a good choice for me,and that really worked,it can also reduce my pressure. 3.take some exercises when you have spare time,it's another way of reducing stress,i tried that,it's therapeutic. although i am still a student now,but my pressure is as much as those who has a job,or maybe more,i will go outside on sunday and during the other days,do my work.when i feel tired,i will ask my classmates to play badminton.knowing how to handle pressure is really important. :)
• China
23 Apr 07
thank you very much. your advise is very helpful and practical.i will put it into my everyday life. it shall be workable.