Education

@nelly5 (1424)
United States
April 19, 2007 9:48pm CST
I am a mother of three beautiful/charming/wonderful children. They have all three made me very happy and I am so blessed to be called their mom. I just want to share the most recent success of one of my children with you all because I am so happy and proud of him. I received a letter in the mail saying that my son was recomended from someone (we don't know who, obviously it must have been the school), to attend the Honors Academy this summer at a local college. My son is in the 2nd grade. For those who don't know, the Honors Academy is for students who are doing very well in school. During this week of classes at the college there are a good number of classes in which the child can pick from to study. They offer some real fun and exciting classes, such as, Willie wonka's candy factory (learning to make their own candy conconction), science (making silly puddy and other "stuff"), computers (learning power point and other computer information), A class on rocks/fossils (make your own rocks/crystals) and many others. My son opted to sign up for the spanish class. I thought that was really neat that out of all the fun and exciting classes he could take and he wants to learn Spanish. I am so proud of him! But one question I have is this, How do I celebrate his success without making my other two children feel less intelligent? They are both bright students and have been working very hard and both have brought their grades up from what they were after our recent move. Do you have a gifted child and others who are not so gifted, my other two children are smart..but they really have to work for it, when my youngest..well it just seems like he just understands things so easily. I would appreciate any comments on how you would handle this type of situation. Thanks in advance =)
2 responses
@MJJ1011 (107)
• United States
20 Apr 07
First of all, Congratulations to you and your son. I can't wait until my daughter is old enough to have these kinds of accomplishments. I think you should ask your other children for ideas on ways to celebrate your son's success. Have them be involved in planning a little celebration at home or a favorite restaurant and make it be a celebration about the whole family's accomplishments. As someone who has a college degree in Spanish, I'm very proud of your son for making such a great decision in choosing to take the Spanish class. Have fun celebrating with your family!
@nelly5 (1424)
• United States
20 Apr 07
Well I should have made myself a little more clear, it will not allow him to have a college degree, but it is a great honor to be invited to this program and will be great later in his education endeavors when people see he was selected for something like this. But yes, I agree with you that it is a great decision he made in selecting the Spanish class. Thanks for the idea on including the other children. I am sure you will be very excited when you daughter is old enough to accomplish great things..kids are wonderful and so much fun. Thanks again. =)
@magiee (63)
• Philippines
20 Apr 07
I had a neighbor just like you're situation. At first she always appreciate her daugther,because of the success that her daughter has. Suddenly her husband notice that the other two children is not as intelligent as his one daughter. What they did was they appreciate the other two kids, then they give them more attention than before.
@nelly5 (1424)
• United States
20 Apr 07
When I was complimenting my son for his great accomplishments and for being invited to the Honors Academy, I also talked to my other two and told them how proud I am of them because of how hard they have been working on their grades...and because of how much they have broughten their grades up. Thanks for your post. =)