BREAK-UPS... who is the first to get over with it.......
By roniroxas
@roniroxas (10560)
Philippines
6 responses
@jencai (3412)
• Philippines
20 Apr 07
Actually, I am not sure who should be the first one to start the break up in a relationship. But in our relationship, it is me always me who demand such. It seems that I have alot of pride. Most of the time, I ask my boyfriend for break up whenever we argue for something and when I can't take the situation anymore. But I am trying to change myself, I know that I'm sometimes wrong.
@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
21 Apr 07
pride is like a rust that ruins a relationship. and it always gets in the way. i hope you really can control that attitude. try to talk it over sitting down. a good communication is the key to a happy relationship.
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@jennawinseverytime (377)
• United States
21 Apr 07
In my experience, I would say the female. But you never know....I dont know if any of my exes missed me and I guess I never will, but I know I missed them and it took at least a month or three to get over.
@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
21 Apr 07
i agree with you, healing is a process that you cant hurry. slowly but surely. thanks for the response.
@prettyfeigh (231)
• Philippines
20 Apr 07
hi roni! As for me, i would say it depends upon the case/situation, most of the time, its the one left out or who fall out of love in short chosed to leave the feelings for the other person and move on. In my case and from others say it is usually the guy since for them there are lots of fishes in the ocean but for us girls when we love someone he's the only one in our world and give up everything for him so when left out it's hard for us to move on with life and find someone for us.
@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
21 Apr 07
i feel sad on what you said, i dont want you to feel like that. thats the reason why guys hurts us because of the soft hearted girls like you. maybe for the guys there are a lot of fish in the ocean but for me i am not the loser here you will never find a girl like me. i hope this will make you feel special and next time let the guys feel sorry for them selves. wink wink
@lilyoungfella (1196)
• Philippines
21 Apr 07
As what i have observed with my friends and i. Males are the ones who first to get over with it.
@brandonmagsino (639)
• Philippines
20 Apr 07
it actually depends really. There are instances where the male is able to get over a relationship faster than a female, but then again, there are those females, who can go through it better than male. Break-ups are not easy. I am speaking from experience, and i have been through a lot already with regards to relationships. but hey, life doesn't stop there. The world is still spinning, isn't it? After all, Love is patient, kind, without envy. Eventually you would have to move on. You can't hide or lock yourself in that room forever. You should learn to love yourself first before anything else.
@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
21 Apr 07
well sometimes loving yourself ia ending with being concieted. when you love someone leave i small space for yourself dont give everything. when you break your heart give yourself time to mourn... but give time to heal as well. stand up learn from the mistakes and try to love again. after all love makes the world goes around. thanks for the response
