at what age did you first have a boyfriend/ girl friend?

just me - the 31 year old me.....
@Zelmarq (12585)
Cebu City, Philippines
April 20, 2007 8:10pm CST
I had my first relationship at the age of 23 years old. I guess it was too old for a first relationship. I was too busy before that time came with my crushes who didnt even knew that I even existed but I'm glad the first relationship was worth it all. We are still together pampering our 8 year old relationship. How about you, how old were you when you had your first gf/ bf?
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• United States
22 Apr 07
I had my first boyfriend at age 15, I didn't tell my parents. I wasn't allowed to go on dates up until I was 16, but we did go to dinner with my boyfriends family alot. I think that maybe I was too young, but it taught me some important things that I wouldn't ever live without.
@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
22 Apr 07
15 is still a very young age for relationships, there are still lots of things to get busy with at this age like school activities, studies, friends and lots of things to discover about life except for boy and girl relationships.
@Xhristy (59)
• Ireland
21 Apr 07
mine was at 15 but it wasnt really a relationship we had no idea what we were doing in all fairness
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
22 Apr 07
At that age I was still having crushes and feeling carzy about so many things in highschool like playing jackstone and other stuff.
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@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
21 Apr 07
relationship - I had my first relationship when i was 20
Hello,zelmarq.There is nothing called'late in relationship, if someone is not ready yet, there is no point to rush into a relationship,right? I had my first relationship when I was 20 years old, the relationship lasted for about one and a half year as I found out that he was a cheater,it was not a good experience through but at least I learnt something from it, I iwll be more careful when I am looking for a guy. Good on you, you have a good relationship, that is why i say it is not too late, as long as you have foudn the right one now, it is enough.
@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
21 Apr 07
Hello Easy! Well its never too late, maybe it was really meant to be like this to love the person who was born to love me. I know God has prepapred me to that one big day when I met the other half of my heart.
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@letzap519 (408)
• Philippines
21 Apr 07
i had my first bf at 23 yrs. old and now we're already 9 mos. and thank GOD we're going strong GOD blessed me someone that is so nice.. GOD-fearing and very understanding.. we really need to wait for the perfect time we should not rushed to be in a relationship...even if you wait it pays coz you will be able to have the right one..
@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
21 Apr 07
Yes, God has someone for us and lucky and blessed are those who have found their destined better haves for they will be happy for the rest of their lives.
• Philippines
21 Apr 07
hmmm let me think deeply :D i had my first relation when im jst about 11 yrs old! weeeeeeee!!! :D
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
21 Apr 07
wow thats a very young age to have a girl friend...
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@Hobbz05 (84)
• Canada
21 Apr 07
I had my first Serious Relationship at the age of 16 but i do remember kissing girls and experiencementing alittle at the age of 11/12!!
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
22 Apr 07
Thats sounds cool, its different with boys and girls I guess.
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@lauczi (962)
• Poland
21 Apr 07
well i dont think it was too late to have first relationship, everyone has own system of life, and so my first and i think last relationship started when i was 21. now, i regret that that i acctually kissed anyone before i met my beloved. and the truth i that i was like any despered girl who wanted to have a boyfriend, not a true love, but i was too shy to make it happen and go out with just any, what makes me happy. i think god prevented me from having "unwanted" boyfriend before i met my true love. so i wish u all the best with ur lover. ;)
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
21 Apr 07
Yes its never too late, we all have our time in love and its all the best we all can wait forcoz its worth the wait.
• Philippines
21 Apr 07
i had my first relationship when I was 18.. we lasted for about 2 years.. we're no longer together.. but it's still nice to know even though we're already on separate ways
@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
21 Apr 07
I lost my father at this age and truly was not ready to have such relationships during that time.
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@kabuki (152)
• Singapore
22 Apr 07
I had my first relationship at 16 and it lasted for six months. It was more of a puppy love and till today, i still have fond memories of the relationship.
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
22 Apr 07
Hello kabuki! Its nice to treasure sweet and lovely momories of our love life.
@ethanmama (1745)
• Philippines
21 Apr 07
Hi, Zelmarq! If you think 23 years old is late for a first relationship, what about me? :) I used to wonder what was wrong with me, as others had boyfriends even before they hit twenty years old. It turned out that nothing's wrong with me, it probably was just not my time to have a relationship. I had my first boyfriend at 28 going on 29. We dated exclusively for 5 years and now we're married for 2 and a half years. It took a while for him to come along in my life, but maybe that is really the right time for me! I'm very happily married right now, with a small son we're both so proud of.
@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
21 Apr 07
Wow I am truly happy for you etahnmama, I wish to have this kind of relationship the way you did. Its never really too late. Things happen for a reason and Im glad you have found the one who made you happy.
@liranlgo (5752)
• Israel
21 Apr 07
Well i had my first boy friend when i was five, yes, everyone is still laughing about it, they say that i was the first one to have a boy friend and the last one of my friends to be married. But my first serious relationship was when i was 19 years old, we were together for almost six years, and after that, i had a few more serious realtionships. This is the first time that i am not in a relationship for a long time, and do hope that i will meet the 'one' soon. :)
@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
21 Apr 07
Wow you are by far the youngest in this dicsussion who had a relationat a very young age. Well i guess it was all but a child's play.
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@liranlgo (5752)
• Israel
22 Apr 07
I guess so..:)
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
8 Jun 07
yes , have a nice day!
@garyeye (202)
• Philippines
22 Apr 07
I've had crushes way back when I was still 12 years of age, but I liked this particular girl in my class that I'm so fond of. She happens to be my girlfriend after almost 12 years after and we're still brooding our relationship.
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
22 Apr 07
I lve stories like this that hopefully ends a happy ever after. My boyfriend was my seatmate in gradeschool and my classmate in highschool and now we are still very together despite the trials that came our way. Our relationship is centered on God.
@kenetot18 (452)
• United States
21 Apr 07
I had my first relationship at the age of fifteen but it last for 2 months and i have my second relationship until now,for a year!that's nice too have a serious relationship at my age!
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
21 Apr 07
wow thats indeed too young to have a relationship with the opposite. I can remember, i was still playing with boys at that age.
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